NO jokes,..I'm serious...complete with withdraw symptoms when there not around?........would you consider that unhealthy or true love?
2007-02-18 07:08:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yes it's mutual..neither one of us can stand to be apart that long so were both wondering...walk out of the house and call five minutes later..fall asleep to snoring on the phone when were alone...no stalking involved...to busy daydreaming to listen to friends chatter....
2007-02-18 07:42:06 · update #1
I've seen the down side of addiction, and obsession, (in the movies and stuffLOL) Now, if you automatically assume the man is ADICK-tive, than maybe you jump to conclusions. If He is merely under a tremendous load with his own life and trying to comprehend a realtionship that is ALREADY tense due to circumstances beyond either of your control...maybe it is addiction..or obsession....or just life ganging up on the two of you all at once and you both need one another to feel needed or significant......But, Hey, what do I know..I just like typing all the time....the keys make this ticking noise that makes my dog tilt his head...Maybe it is Love....hindered Love....but Love just the same.
2007-02-19 10:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by 35 YEARS OF INTUITION 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup you can. Psychologically you can attach yourself to a person. For example: I know of a little girl that would get fevers about the third day after her Daddy had been gone for a business trip. It would clear up when her Daddy called and spoke to her or when he came home. To deter a future episode when her Daddy left for another business trip, her mom would give the little girl an unwashed t-shirt of her daddy. The smell of her dad was enough to comfort her.
Now, if you are talking romantically attached, then yes it is also possible. Just as the same concept as the little girl above. It just means that you are REALLY IN LOVE with this man. There is however a problem if he does not share the same feelings for you.
2007-02-18 15:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by pinaykezzes 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...it's possible. It's called a fixation or obsession. It's okay...as long as you don't go to extremes. You're probably addicted to the attention they give you when they're around. You may really miss them and yearn for them. Do they feel the same for you ? Most fixations don't include a mutual feeling but sometimes we imagine they do. You need to not be clingy and pitiful. It'll turn him off. Remember that. Learn to be strong when he's not around. It could be true love, I don't know. I've like guys in the past and felt "addicted" to them but it never worked out for me. Good luck to you, though.
2007-02-18 15:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by BRAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read one time in Comso that feelings of love trigger certain hormones to be released, thus mimicking a feeling of being high, and when you come down off of that high or you are without that loved one you can actually feel withdrawal. You should go to Cosmopolitan.com and look for the article. I would say that this can be unhealthy, because you need to live your life for you and not base everything, every action on somebody else. Besides, if you ever broke up, it would be real hard to cope.
2007-02-18 20:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, honestly, a bit unhealthy. It's romantic if you say that you can't live without each other, but I mean, if it goes too far like when you're getting withdrawal symptoms everytime he's gone, it's an addiction, and I'd think it's not a good thing.
2007-02-18 18:48:36 · answer #5 · answered by Banana Hero [sic] 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess, you can get addicted to someone, more often called an obsession, they dont always end up with positive results.. Only you can tell if it is true love.
2007-02-18 16:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by Scarlett 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you don't know him well enough of you'd change your tune. Did you just say..."a man?" LOL Men are not something people can ever be addicted to...not if they really know them. Now you can be addicted to not respecting men because they're men but that's another story. I think it's probably the sex...which is the only thing they're good for. :) OUCH. Forgive me. l
2007-02-18 15:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by Jade D. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your brains are that scrambled you could get addicted to anything. Ever hear of OCD?
You are in an unhealthy relationship. You are like a parasite needing the host. Detach yourself before you hurt yourself. Seek help now.
2007-02-18 21:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes possible and I think it may be a combination between true love and obsession.
the obsession part not being good.
2007-02-18 15:10:58 · answer #9 · answered by DisneyLover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a life! Ok, I am kidding, but I don't think it is healthy. Get out and experience other parts of life.
2007-02-18 15:10:49 · answer #10 · answered by Zachary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋