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2007-02-18 07:04:28 · 21 answers · asked by Mayonaise 6 in Arts & Humanities Philosophy

21 answers

Because you can only hate the things that you love.
Think about it.

2007-02-18 08:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by Lost. at. Sea. 7 · 0 0

Love turning to hate, is about someone waking up from an illusionary romantic state. Looking at the object of their affection they saw something great, that just was not there. They might feel deceived by the other person. They might feel foolish for coloring the other person great. They might feel ridiculous for allowing their head to get beat in, while granting so much mercy and forgiveness to the other person. Then one day, the great revelation - I'm in love with a bum! I've been used!! I've been wasting my time, and money."

The best thing to do is to get on with your life. Love yourself for a while. Learn to have more self-esteem. Become an even better person, who is capable of giving even more love. Know in your mind, that you are a great person, and the other person lost out.

2007-02-18 15:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by ignoramus_the_great 7 · 0 0

Emotions or rather strong emotions are the basis for Yin and Yang,black and white. To give oneself to a person and not get in return. Rejection from one we love is the worst form of rejection possible. Betrayal rips your soul to shreds because you feel as if a part of you has turned away from you. That said there is also a realization that after the storm is the calm. Where life is rebuilt to begin anew.

2007-02-18 15:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by ace 2 · 0 0

What is the definition of love (webster) ...if it turns to hatred it was never love to begin with. To genuinely care for someones well being does not allow for hatred. The question misrepresents love.

2007-02-18 15:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by sam hill 4 · 0 0

yes....."when our expectations of the BeLoved are DisAppointed".

expectations.

wishing for.. desiring .. wanting .. needing .. deserving ....... serving..

seeking .. looking for .. anticipating .. passivied.

planning .. nurturing .. aggregating .. aggressing .. progressing.
actively serving .

....... and then as the pictures begin to take shape. something may occur.. such as a 'realization' which show that just out of the reach or still there in the shadows of unknowing .... there is a non-event of love . the love which you have waited for has not arrived ..or it is not as you thought/felt ... saw.

when we make an appointment for the self to know great hope and then have that self dis appointed ... an inversion of love occur and it is near equal (or so it may seem) to the heights of feeling which was such a distraction of self in Love.

and depending on experiences the self do be have for this realization .... or inversion to compound fear manifestations.

hatreds are such ..... losses ... gaining angers and jealousies and envys and vengeances and doubts and ... and .. and whatever else you can think/feel in your personal experience .

all..........ideal(s) based realities for your/my (un)likeness.

depression .................................................................

depression is the place which we go to to find the Self which Accept You or I . this is why acceptance heal(th) fears. because it is in our experience of loss and denial and depressive realization that we come to know the person which did not see the tree in the forests.

the tree being Your Self.

Great Love is Real(ized) in great fear.

the great gift and great opportunity realized in great fear (or some other hate realization) is Just Great Love.

confusion is the trying to convince self or other what is their "expectation" when it is their Self to Create by Other.

love binds fear like the eye give a tear
for the sight to see the truth of Self.

2007-02-18 15:46:57 · answer #5 · answered by noninvultuous 3 · 0 0

Because people tend to mix up with love and attachment.(This is a quotation from a yahoo answerer defining love and I like it very much) and an attachment is very easy to turn to hatred when its requirements aren't fulfilled.

2007-02-18 15:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by edd 3 · 0 0

That is really an interesting question. It must be because love is a powerful emotion, as is hate. They are on the same circuit, like flipping a switch. I know that I have bitter contempt for my ex-boyfriend and wish he was dead, although I used to love him. Why is that?

2007-02-18 19:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by August lmagination 5 · 0 0

true love never turns to hatred,u may leave the person but u never hate him or try to hurt him

2007-02-18 15:37:51 · answer #8 · answered by imma 2 · 0 0

Love and hatred...the extremes of our emotions so close they nearly join in full circle.

2007-02-18 15:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Because love is so easily damaged.
Hate is love broken

2007-02-18 16:38:46 · answer #10 · answered by tillermantony 5 · 0 0

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