my best friend now has a desire for me.....?

Question

my best friend has a desire for me.in the past my friend had no romantic desire for me.Now during the last couple of months during
her rocky relationship with her boyfriend I was very supportive towards her,I allowed her to cry on my shoulder occasionally and I
allowed her to deal with her boyfriend without any help from me,I stayed at my apt. for a couple of days not talking to her letting her
do what she has to do.I have always been a good friend to her,I allowed her to vent on me and basically helped her to clean up the
mess.now she is telling me that I was the only one who stayed by
her side in both good and bad times.I even nursed her back to health when she was sick.Now she tells me she is falling in love with me.What should I do,I care for her deeply,but I think she is still
hurting from the breakup.Please help I'm confused on this one.

Answer 1

it sounds to me as if you really have acted like a boyfriend, even if you dont feel that way. tell her you want to continue being a good friend nothing else.

Answer 2

1) What you must is decide is if you feel the same!
2) Then talk to her (if you do feel the same) tell her you feel the same.
3) Then say do you want to get into another relationship straight away or do you want to wait for a bit and just be friends for a bit longer and see what happens - just go out for fun dont get into nothing to serious at the moment - personally thats what I think you should do - but its up to you - take no notice of anybody else - follow your own heart and if you want a relationship with your best friend straight away then go for it tell everybody else to butt out its your life and your living it and you only live once - I hope it works out and goes well. GOOD LUCK

Answer 3

Love grows, as you must know. Her desire for you has come from you being there through thick and thin. Give her some space, and if she still feels that way, then go for it. You must be careful that she is not on the rebound. Time will tell in this situation.

Answer 4

Do you love her back is the big Q

If you answered yes then wait till she recovers from the break-up and then make a move

If you answered no then just tell her so because she's already down so you cant possibly push her down much more

Whatever happens always be there fer her and always be be friend that is truthful and loyal

Good luck buddy : )

Answer 5

If you want a relationship with her, be her friend. Wait a few weeks and see how you and she are feeling later.

If you don't want a relationship with her, be her friend.

Either way, create some space for both of you to find out what/who you really want.

Answer 6

dis is offcourse.if u help some1 den she wud definitely will be attracted 2wards u.tell her 2 think bout dis &tell her dat it is frnd's job 2 help his frnd &also if 2 of u got into dis love relation den u 2 wud not be able 2 enjoy dat frnds memories 2gether .so best of luck buddy.hope u got my point

Answer 7

ı know that situation.if you dont love her,you must get away from her because it hurt so much her.
she is living in a space now.she doesnt know what she will do ı think.you should talk to her but if she wont listen to you,you immediatly get away from her.just for her,dont call her back again.

Answer 8

Well the only way you will find out is to try it out... she what she has to say about the brake up and if she seems to have no problem with it don't worry

Answer 9

probably one of those people that cant be alone, you are probably a good listener and are there for her on most occasions. just let her know your not interested and that you want to be her friend and you'll help her get through this.

Answer 10

if u really love her and u know that shes not juz using u, i say go for it. u seem like a great guy that knows what hes doing, juz follow ur heart!