I am 14 and i need HELP I have these ""friends"" and they just got mad at me for some reason. I cant figure out why. I asked them why they were mad at me, but they just wont tell me. One of the girls say she cant say why. My ""best friend"" who is mad at me wont talk to me any more. I called her house and her brother answered and said she was sleeping but I heard her in the back round. I love these girls to death. I would do any thing to stop our frindship from ending but it just isnt working. I talked to one of the girls on the internet and she is a bit mad. I think I know why the one is mad at me but I dont want to be wrong. But they just wont talk to me no matter what I do. I cant stand the thought of loosing them. It kills me. I need advice on what I should do. PLEASE HELP ME!!!
2007-02-18 07:02:41 · 12 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the same think happen to me wen i was 13 im 15 right now but wen it happen 2 me i found out my friends were mad at me beacause supposedly i talked **** behind their back when it was'nt true but we got over it in 2 weeks! either someone said u were talking bad about them, the boy that 1 of your friends like....likes u and your friends told every 1 of your friends not 2 talk 2 u or they're not true friends 2 u and if they cant be u need 2 comfront them......wat u shoud do is ignore them....give them sum time 2 cool down then they will talk 2 u
2007-02-18 07:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened to me before
its weird but a lot of people dont like saying why they are mad some just "think" you already know why even when we dont
try saying sorry and maybe if u can just get one person to tell u why they are mad
like maybe the one that said they cant tell u
i really hate when that happens
in fact this guy has been mad at me for like 1 year and i never know why....
but im sure all of u will be friends again
2007-02-18 15:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by ilovemydogii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how much moneys you have . BUT go to the dollar store buy a small gift or bake some killer brownies.THEn sit down and write a long letter telling them what U think of them.THEN explain you dont understand why they are mad at you. AND that if you have said something wrong your so sorry. IF YOU HEARD A RUMOR AT LEAST TELL ME.TELL THEM I think the world of all of you. I DONT WANT US TO END THIS WAY. WE have ben through thick and thin. FRIENDS FORGIVE FRIENDS.AT least allow me a chance to talk. WELL i send my love hope to hear from you soon. love
2007-02-18 15:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
rember your just 14. this girls are going to leave soon after middle school or high school. talk to the friend that you think you know why she is mad. if that doesn't work just go meet new people.
2007-02-18 15:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that their mad mad because u did something wrong... if our u i will figure out wats wrong with them and y are they mad at me because if their maybe their is a reason.. ask them y they are really mad to u.. if they dod not answer i think u can just figure it out by yoursself because u said that they won't tlk to u saw try very hard tlking to them so good luck...^_^ i think this is not a good opinion but this is wat i feel a about u.. so good luck :P
2007-02-18 15:25:40 · answer #5 · answered by nice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them what you just wrote.
ask around school why tey are
mad at you
If try this for a week and tere
is no luck, get new friends
they abviously don't want to
be friends
2007-02-18 15:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by fun fun fun .... you know the rest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DON'T WANT TO MESS UP YOUR FRIENDSHIP WITH THESE SO CALLED FRIEND BUT STOP AND THINK----DOES BEST FRIENDS TURN THEIR BACK ON YOU DO THEY KEEP ANY THING FROM YOU DO THEY SAY YOU DID SOME THING WRONG AND DON'T TELL YOU WHAT IT IS
IF YOU ASK ME DEAR THEY ARE NOT BEST FRIENDS ---FRIENDS COME AND GO BUT BEST FRIENDS ARE THERE FOR EVERY
SORRY YOUR BETTER THEN THAT
2007-02-18 15:20:03 · answer #7 · answered by darlene l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your "friends" arent true friends. they wont even tell u why theyre mad at u. i say u might need to find other friends.
2007-02-18 15:08:39 · answer #8 · answered by need answers & can give them,too 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to have friends a person must be friendly if you entertain rejection that is what you will most likely get i would advice you to nmove on
2007-02-18 15:11:17 · answer #9 · answered by Raymond B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These aren't friends, they are getting pleasure out of hurting you. Stay away from these cats.
2007-02-18 15:06:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋