I've been with my guy for 11+ years straight out of HS and I love him but he changed and I'm alone most of the time with the kids
2007-02-18 06:32:37 · 3 answers · asked by lizziemoffles 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
"Love" is a strong word. Love is not lust, love is not infatuation, love is not a crush on someone, love is when you deeply care for someone and what you see on the outside does not matter.. it's all in the heart. Younger people tend to not know the true meaning of love.. they go by what they think love is. For the girls, they think it is seeing a hot guy pass by and that is love. For the guys, they think it is seeing a sexually appealing female that is showing off parts of the body that should not be seen by everyone and that is love. That is NOT love. That is lust. Love and lust are very easily confused these days. It is even confused in music very often.. like T Pain's song "I'm In Love With A Stripper".. good song, but sorry guys that's not talking about real love.. that is lust. I think the younger people who don't understand actually think about songs like this and think that being attracted to a stripper is love because that is what they're being told it is. Another thing.. love for a person is not determined by what they have or how wealthy they are. Love is from the HEART!!! =)
2007-02-21 18:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a myth. I believe it, but love is SO hard.
Sometimes, we see it as a myth, because it barely ever works out. However, I was watching the news the other day & saw a couple that had been married for 78 years!
They were still very much in love & that made me realize that love isn't a myth, but it's hard to find.
2007-02-18 15:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real Love exists. But sadly, it can fly away.
2007-02-18 15:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by tenno1234 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋