Me and my friend always get in fights basically everyday and she started cussing me out yesterday because i wouldn't do something for her because i would get in trouble but we've been best friends for three years and she said sorry should i give her another chance???
2007-02-18 06:26:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why do you like the stress so much. I would expect more respect from my friend than that. If she is getting you into trouble she doesn't respect you. Go find a nicer friend that doesn't scream in your face everyday.
2007-02-18 06:29:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand how you are best friends if you fight all the time. Do you get anything out of the relationship? I mean, I have gotten to the point that I only keep people around who make my life better...surround myself with positive people. If she is trying to get you to do things you shouldn't then maybe you should look for a new friend. Anyone can say sorry, doesn't mean it is sincere. Maybe don't cut her off completely but just find other friends and hang out with them. Distance yourself from her a bit. Definately talk to her and tell her that if she keeps acting this way your friendship is going to be non-existant. If she doesn't change after that... move on. Good luck.
2007-02-18 14:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by K.A. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea you should. Me and my bff for 5yrs. get in fights everyday thats why we are such great friends. the fact that she said sorry means she doesnt want to lose you. Friends have disagreements like this all the time. Just tell her your feelings when she cussed you out. IF you think it will lead to another argument then just tell her you appreiciate her apologie and go on with the day like best friends always do. Thats what me and my bff do and were still bff after 5 yrs. of fighting
2007-02-18 14:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by peanut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly if you can't get along everyday then why continue to put yourself through this drama. A true friend is someone you can trust and keeps your spirits up, not force you to make a decision of getting them out of your life. If the negative out weighs the positive it's time to get a new friend. Remember Misery loves company.....but what do you love???
Take Care.
2007-02-18 14:37:23 · answer #4 · answered by annitra25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on the severity. if shes like this everyday and its emotional abuse, get out of it. i had a relationship like this and one day i just said i dont want to be associated with u any more. but if you act the same way to her than you should change UR behavior and maybe she'll catch the hint. Dont be mean about breaking off the relationship because you'll pay for it forever.
2007-02-18 14:30:56 · answer #5 · answered by crazycatz11593 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you fight everyday, that pretty much means she isn't your friend. Friends don't fight every day. Leave her and get better friends. If she apologizes and changes her ways then yeah give her another chance. She has to be willing to change though.
2007-02-18 14:32:57 · answer #6 · answered by ReelTru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend seems to have some anger management problems. Although I understand that the history with a person makes us want to hold onto them longer, some relationships are toxic for us. And if someone makes us feel bad about ourselves or wants us to do 'bad' things for their personal gain I think it's time to say goodbye.
2007-02-18 14:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by Jedove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she was really your best friend she wouldnt be telling you to do something that would get you in trouble. i would sit her down and tell her your feelings but yeah i would give her a second chance if she said sorry
2007-02-18 14:32:38 · answer #8 · answered by deborah s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should look out for your self first. If u know that your going to get in trouble for it. Then don't do it.. U come first..
Just be straight up with her and if she can't drop it then maybe she's not the friend for you
2007-02-18 14:30:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you are fighting every day and she got mad because you would not do something because you knew it would get you into trouble. Why would you want to waste any more time on her? Dump her and fast!
2007-02-18 14:30:17 · answer #10 · answered by mamabear1957 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋