He trys to be a skater and a rocker he thinks he is better than me but he just got his gutair and wants to be in a band i told him it probaly won't happen but I have this thing called frustration disorder it makes me mad for no reason it is a common problem i just get frustrated about him being a poser because he copys me all the time it gets annoying he is really a video game playing kinda person he is just annoying kinda I became friends with him because he acted like himself but now it just gets annoying so I need help.
2007-02-18 05:59:48 · 2 answers · asked by john 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I mean he just got his gutair and i have had one for 9 years he just got his two weeks ago he thinks he is better than me... i mean i play more instrments then him bass,drums, steel gutair he is annoying needs to be himself thats why I wanted to be his frined... I dont have this problem with my other friends probaly they act like them sleves
2007-02-18 06:12:30 · update #1
He also trys to dress in "skater clothes" but he is just a video playing kinda person. and he trys to be rocker. then i dress in just plain T-shirt and jeans ( I dont really care about fashion) then he thinks i am a poser i dont try to be skater or rocker even though i kinda think i am cause i am in a band but anyway i am redneck but he just annoyes me and then he trys to be like Bam Margera he says he is just like him but he is like opposite... i am more like him because i broke my arm doing a stupid stunt he does not do anything stupid he is kinda shy he has never kissed a girl besides his mommy and has only had one gf he trys to be like me it annoys me so much.
2007-02-18 06:24:40 · update #2
You need to talk to your friend. I know what it's like to have a friend that pretends to be something they're not.
You need to tell him how you feel about it. Just tell him that you became his friend because he acted like himself & you liked him that way.
Also, if he acts like he's better than you, confront him. THAT is annoying.
I've had people be like that with me all my life, so I understand your frustration. I hope everything works out.
Good luck!
2007-02-18 06:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend is trying to emulate you and if this is the case, you could be flattered.
I understand that you'd rather he be himself and stop the posing, as you call it, so that you don't feel like he's stealing your thunder/hopes/dreams/personality, etc. He's young and insecure and easily led so you can prob. change things with a kind word telling him that you liked the guy you first met, but that this new personality has gotten annoying. He'll be hurt, maybe angry and not understand, but you've got to make your own limitations known. We teach people how to treat us, and you've got to teach him what you'll accept and won't.
Good Luck.
2007-02-18 14:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by Moe J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋