Is anyone else here bi? If you are, how did you tell your parents? I'm still a minor, so I'm not independantly accounted for...
Help!
2007-02-18 05:39:00 · 8 answers · asked by All!c@ 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you dont have to tell them, at least not right away. wait til your older and only tell them if the time comes that you are into a serious relationship with a same sex partner..
if you are bi, then you may end up dating guys, therefore no need to rock the boat at your age..
i just realized i was bi and transgendered at 32. i am now 33 and have slowly started telling people close to me. rather then dump it all on everyone at once, i started with sharing feelings one at a time.. eventually they started to get the idea that i was confused and that i am still sorting out who i really am. bottom line, they know i am not a normal straight guy and that's enough for them to realize and to let me know they accept me no matter what
2007-02-18 07:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure yet, so im like, bi curious, and ive only told the friends of mine that i know wouldn't have a problem with it and my bro and sis who are both older than me and don't care, though my sis has the need to joke about it in school! which pisses me off! cuz she doesn't seem to care that i don't want any won else to know! LOL but yeah, first see what ur parents view of blgt, then decide whether it would be ok to tell them! and they should except u for who u r! and if they dont dont, then tell them that they should be ashamed of themselves for being arragant! LOL so yeah hope i helped!
good luck!
2007-02-18 06:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by Rin_san44 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep. I straight out told them. But then again, I knew my parents and they suspected I was queer for years. It was anticlimatic because of that. Now when I told them about my tattoos, I caught h#ll for that. Guess it's not a big help, but a lot has to deal with your parents and how they feel on the subject.
2007-02-18 05:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by wanfuforever 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I haven't told my parents yet because its not something that I feel they need to know. I live with my parents as well. The only people I've told were some of my friends, because I knew they wouldn't really have a problem with it.
2007-02-18 05:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by drummerofaband 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
im 15 so havnt told ne1, and theres no point because i mite change my mind, but most of my friends suspect it seeing as how ive kissed quite a few boys [while drunk at parties], but i dont mind, im only in denial to those whose business it doesnt concern, not to myself, which matters lol. and i havnt told my parents, im not planning to in the current situation.
2007-02-18 05:46:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i told my mom when i was 14 that i thought i was gay and she was ok with it. now that im almost 16 i feel the same way and things are still ok.
2007-02-18 06:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm straight but I sill treat everyone with respect no matter what they are.
2007-02-18 05:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I JUST BROUGHT HOME A CHICK ONE DAY AND TREATED HER LIKE A BOYFRIEND IN FRONT OF THEM. THEY GOT THE IDEA. THINKING BACK THAT WAS A VERY BRAVE MOVE... IT MIGHT NOT WORK FOR YOU
2007-02-18 07:31:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋