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2007-02-18 05:25:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

My husband cheats on me .

2007-02-18 05:27:43 · update #1

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I have never cheated on any one I was with. I have known a lot of friends both male and female that have cheated on their partner and one thing is always common in the cheaters relationships. They always wish they wouldn’t have done it I have heard it so many times. “ If I could just take back the things that I did and put all that effort into the relationship that I wasted on the second person things would have been so different”
Just remember you can never take cheating on someone back. You also have to realize the person you are cheating with will never trust you, so even if you stay with that person it will never be as strong as the relationship you are leaving. It is always better to leave a relationship before you get involved with someone else.

If you want a good relationship get with some one that thinks the same as you do that they think it is just as wrong to cheat as you do, I think every one deserves not to be cheated on. But maybe that’s just me it seems to me not many people feel that way. Both men and woman cheat more often then not, so I wish you luck in finding someone that feels cheating is wrong.

2007-02-18 09:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by Male_42_us 2 · 1 0

I was married to my first husband for over 30 years and I never cheated on him but he did on me It was about the 7 Itch time and it was devastating and it took us about 5 years to finally work through everything then we had a good marriage until he passed Marriage is hard work and sometimes people get turned around
No one can tell you if you should stay or go but yourself but don't just sit there and hope it will get better confront him and find out what he wants (you or the other) and if he is willing to work at it before YOU decide what you want and what you are going to do
Good luck I hope you get what you want I wish you love

2007-02-18 05:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by pokey's gumby 2 · 1 0

My wife cheated on me a decade ago, for a few months. She moved out. I was miserable and needy for a couple weeks, but when I stood strong and wished her luck and said I hope we both find someone we want to spend the rest of our lives with, she snapped back to reality. Within weeks her relationship with the other man fell apart and she begged me to give our relationship another shot. In some amount of frustration after that, I "cheated" back by engaging in some anonymous cybersex online, but I ended that after awhile. We are strong again. My advice for people who are being cheated on is this: Be strong, be independent, show your partner that you can go on without them and be happy if need be. Strength is attractive, weakness is not.

2007-02-18 05:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by Paul 3 · 0 0

I cheated on my wife for 16 years and she knew about it.

2007-02-22 22:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yes on boyfriends when i was younger a lot with their friends . boys don't care they will screw their best friends girl and then offer her to someone else . i had one guy that bought me a ring on a Monday after i had screwed 4 of his friends over the weekend and he only got to rub it a little i don't cheat on hubby because he knows who is getting what

2007-02-18 06:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by hotblonde 2 · 0 0

hell yes. too many to count. And I came home afterwards, happy and pleasant to be around, no diseases, etc. There are far more important things in life than fidelity...security and love are just two of them. And would I have a fit if my other half did the same thing? NO! Just keep it to yourself, there are things that do not need to be shared. Fidelity is highly over rated. It seems that it takes the place of love in many relationships....hollow and silly, at best.

2007-02-18 05:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

I never cheated.

2007-02-22 04:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by Kat G 6 · 1 0

no i couldnt do that and your husband cheats because he doesnt love you accept it and move on

2007-02-18 05:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by megan 2 · 2 0

my husband has were not together

2007-02-22 08:48:57 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 1 0

Never. And I never will.

2007-02-18 07:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by Terri 7 · 0 0

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