I know i am straight, but for whatever reason I keep gettin feelings that I might be bi or gay. Does anyone know how to rid myself of these feelings?
2007-02-18 05:21:28 · 10 answers · asked by confused 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i have wrote other questions about my lifestyle and my feelings and most have been saying straight. i am 16 and this is really stressful, i have fantasies about guys but have never masturbated to one, never tried.
2007-02-18 05:31:14 · update #1
If you have to force yourself to be straight than you aren't straight. You really need to figure things out instead of trying to make yourself something your not. Are you afraid that you might be a homosexual or bisexual? Seems like you have to learn to e comfortable with who you are.
2007-02-18 05:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
So you do not remember why you are attracted to males. There must have been the first time. If you could try and remember why you started having these fantasies, well then you could understand them more, and once you understand something more you tend to have more contro; of the situation.
These fantasies started from some type of influence. No I am not saying demon influence. You had to have had a beginning. Focus on the beginning so you can find the ending.
2007-02-18 20:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by ishelp4 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, but I don't know a SINGLE heterosexual who has fantasies about being with a same-gendered person.
You is what you is.
Learn to relax and be happy, or life is not worth the effort. If you are bi, then your choice isn't weather or not to BE bi. Your choice is weather or not to be happy, healthy, and sane. Or you could live a life of total denial, never really connecting with someone, never really enjoying sex or feeling comfortable. It's your call.
2007-02-18 13:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are attracted to the opposite sex, you can't be gay. If you are bi, and aren't comfortable with that, you can choose to be with only the opposite sex.
Since you're only 16 years old, I'd say what you're going through is fairly normal. Many people question their own sexuality and experiment when they're younger, I certainly went through a phase where I thought I was bi. If you are gay, however, you can't change that, you can only accept it or suppress it.
2007-02-18 13:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To properly answer that question the difference between feeling and urges need to be defined. If you have a feeling like thoughts about guys or girls then that is natural. Everyone has these thoughts. If you feel a strong urge to actually carry out this thought then there might be something to it.
2007-02-18 13:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by Michael D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you don't need to rid yourself of feelings. Mainly because you can't. If you don't want to be bi or gay, then try and not have sex with guys. That's the only way. I know it sounds simple, and it's not, but many people can be celibate...although I personally don't suggest it, because it's boring.
2007-02-18 14:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
See, I thought I was straight too....until I was honest with myself. Turns out that I am bi. You might be scared of your true feelings, or don't want to admit them to yourself. But be true to yourself! Don't try to be something that you're not just to try and make yourself "normal" or happy; you'll be happier once you admit the truth to yourself, believe me. I was! =)
2007-02-18 13:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by All!c@ 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sure: click your heels three times, say, "I am straight, I am Straight, I AM STRAIGHT" ... Now, do your homework.
2007-02-18 13:24:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are, then you will believe it. you are getting feelings of it because that's what you may find yourself to be.
2007-02-18 13:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by Busta 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be true to yourself, if you are straight why do you have these feelings?
2007-02-18 13:24:50 · answer #10 · answered by skaterboiz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋