Why is life so unfair?

Answer 1

fair is something-a term- we humans created...it doesnt really fit into life...life is not fair and never will be-but thats ok-thats just how it all works...life is a rollercoaster of ups and downs and it can be cruel, depressing,horrible,UNFAIR,and it can be beautiful,generous,enlightening as well..
live and learn..within every mistake and tradgedy comes knowledge,experience and strength. i have p[ersonally suffered many tradgedies inmy short 26 yrs-my parents died,my son almost died,but instead lived-thankfully-but is now severely disabled....ive been to more funerals than i have fingers to count...life is hard but it is every experience good and bad that made you who you are today-remember that

think positive-your thoughts have an emmence effect on your life

Answer 2

Life is change. It doesn't stay stagnant. In the process of change, conditions change and some gain and some lose and life is not fair.

Even if conditions stayed the same, you could whine about it being unfair because you can't make more money or do more things. There's just simply no way to please everyone.

Now you can either sit there and cry in your milk or you can decide what you are going to do with what you've been given. This is what separates winners from losers. Losers sit down and cry and winners do something about it.

Answer 3

We human beings generally seem to feel best when we can believe we are in control of things. We intensely dislike the idea that many (most?) of the things we encounter in life are pretty much beyond our control.

Sometimes we may wind up suffering because of our own actions--and then, if we are honest with ourselves, we can accept that we "brought it on ourselves," and deserve our suffering--it may still be painful, but this does at least seem "fair."
But when we suffer because of factors over which we have little or no control, this is much more difficult to accept, and it often just doesn't seem "fair" or "right" at all. We want life to "follow the rules," so that things are maximally predictable and thus potentially within our control.

Curiously, it would seem that for many of us, the more religious we are the more difficult it may be for us to understand and accept the unfortunate things that life may bring us. If we believe in a benevolent and protecting God, and view ourselves as being basically good, virtuous and God-fearing people, it REALLY seems "unfair" when life suddenly gives it to us between the eyes!

Answer 4

life is unfair to u cuz u think it's unfair. Cuz accordind to ur definitions of bad and good there is more bad or there is more good in the world. Maybe if u looked at the world a little differently life cod be fair, beautiful or maybe it'd just become a mystery

Answer 5

Suffering is a natural part of life because it leads to growth and liberation of primordial states of consciousness which illuminates the truth of knowledge. This light is the final goal of all life.

With this knowledge, the creative forces of the mind are free to interact with each other in a vivid display of colors and forms, and when inacted by the will of the individual, unites together to represent the ideal form of the formless, immaterial light (God/enlightenment) within one's mind.

Thus having the light within the mind, that being is freed from all corporeal manifestions of the mind. He continues his life with the added knowledge of happiness and bliss, and wishes to teach others his illumination. For any man with a pure heart knows that once obtained, this hidden wisdom, it shall never be forgotten again, and to covet it would be the utmost crime, so he must share his thoughts with people all the days of his life.

Answer 6

Look at the life of lions, monkeys, wildebeest, etc... Is their life "unfair"? What does unfair really mean? Do you think there's some cosmic order that shold be handing out rewards or something? Life is what it is.

if it weren't for the asteroid 65 million years ago, we wouldn't even be here. Is that fair to the dinosaurs?

Answer 7

Hello life is the most fair thing
Life is nature
The earth gives and takes to give again
Cest la vie [thats life]
You are going thru a phase of victimization
my friend. It is a time of growth, well it was for me. Remove yourself from the responsibility of understanding all the suffering out there.
You can neither alleviate nor understand it.
Remove ownership for others' pain and feel the freedom.

Answer 8

Life will keep its promise to you and if your problems are incorrect you will feel that life is unfair

Answer 9

Why would you expect it to be fair? Look around. In times of drought, creatures die. In better times, creatures still compete. Everywhere nature is "red in tooth and claw." Human creatures, too. If you accept how life is, even study how it goes, you might find a place in it where you can be happy.

Answer 10

because ******* keep on asking y life is so unfair.