Well would you? i really really would. i know one person who drives me up the wall, she's so god damn annoying. (lets just call her 'louise' for now) and i am a really like open person, i give everyone a chance, but sometimes you just cant click with someone. yeah and this girl just doesn't take any hints to leave me and my friends alone....so yeah we're gonna put up with her for the rest of highschool! we're not mean enough to tell her to go away. everyone knows a person who really annoy them....we can't help it. so yeah if someone felt exactly the same way towards me as i felt about louise, i would seriously want to know, so i can back off that person.....(because there is this girl, and we are really good friends but sometimes it seems that she really doesn't like me.....)
anyone else feel like this???
2007-02-18 05:13:52 · 23 answers · asked by Button.Monster 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Guys I try to ignore 'Louise,' like not make much conversation. But sometimes i feel sorry for her and i feel really bad on myself. she has her own friends, but she is a constant nag and doesn't leave you alone and trails after you everywhere. i really wouldn't mind it if she could back off for a bit...give me my own space...
2007-02-18 08:49:40 · update #1
I would want to know WHY they felt they hated me so I could either stop the annoying behavior that was influencing those feelings OR stay away from the person and not trust them. I wouldn't want someone to come out and say "I hate you" but I would not want them to be phony and nice to me.
2007-02-18 14:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you would not want to be somewhere your not wanted.But it's not fair to pretend to be someones friend that you don't like,it's especially not fair to them.I would rather know so that I don't make a fool of myself and know that the minute I walk away people are talking about me.When I don't like someone I let it be known, I don't pretend or give them the impression I want to be their friend.People pretty much know when I don't want to be bothered with them,without me saying anything because I pretty much avoid them,and don't get into any real conversations with them.I really don't care if people like me or not,but I pretty much get along with most people. I feel they don't live my life or go through what I do,so if they don't have the time to get to know me,then it's there loss.So I suggest you find a way to let her know that she's not really your cup of tea,so that she can stop wasting her time hanging around someone that doesn't like her,and she can find people she has more in common with.wonder if she over hears you and your friends talking about her in a negative manner, that would hurt her alot,it would probably hurt her that you don't want to be her friend, but it would be worst for her to find out another way,specially if she thinks that you are her friend.
2007-02-18 13:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by glorene b 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, having being told by a friend after 3 years of so called friendship to go and find some friends of my own, i would
2007-02-19 15:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter, i think you know if someone hates you deep down. I know exactly how you feel, but you are better off just getting on with life and deciding if its better for you to be mates with this girl or not, although its easier said than done!!
2007-02-18 13:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel like this too, some people I know just hate me but acts like a friend to me..and it does get a little annoying after awhile. I totally agree with you.
2007-02-18 13:18:59 · answer #5 · answered by Carolyn 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
maybe she so lonely and see u has her freind i say she trying very hard to be ur freind abd i know it too much to take the best thing is slowly start drooping hints out or ask does she hate u or just stay away from the comany until she gets the mesage
2007-02-18 17:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by dd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
erm this is a hard one, but you could really break her heart if you told her!but im sure this girl knows she is not the favourite outta your mates but hasnt got anyone else to hang out with.just kinda phase her out if shes that bad but dont tell her!she will definately get the hint!
2007-02-18 13:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am in the top five of at least 5 people's s h i t lists and frankly they can kiss my fanny. I don't care that they hate me because they are all people that I can do without having in my life anyway..
2007-02-18 13:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
Don't care how others feel. I just do the best I can every day and if someone doesn't like it, that's their problem. And when someone tells me they don't like me, I tell them to get in line.
2007-02-18 13:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
thing is...she does not know how you feel about her, because you have not told her yet....so why don't you grow a spine and tell her if she annoys you that much, if Louise had any sense, she'll thank you for her lucky escape....who need enemies eh
2007-02-18 13:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋