My son and daughter want to kick him out immediately. Should I give him a second chance?
2007-02-18 05:11:51 · 9 answers · asked by WOLFIE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would go with the kids feelings. I am all for forgiveness but this type of thing puts your whole family at risk. If he is this disrespectful of your home and children disrespect will rear its ugly head in other ways. Remember if he is smoking pot he most likely storing it on his person and in your place. Get him out now.
2007-02-18 05:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its hard to quit doing drugs. If he says he will quit, even if you have known him for a while, don't believe him totally until after he quits, that way if anything ever happened, you would be able to trust him. Just make sure he definitely quits, and that he doesn't say anything like "oh I'll quit next week" , or "I can do what I want." Just honestly say that you are looking out for him, and that you don't want anything bad to happen, drugs cause consequences.
2007-02-18 13:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a lease? Is it stipulated in the lease that he cannot smoke pot? Of course not. Tell him you will call the police next time he smokes dope on the premises.
2007-02-18 13:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. What's so bad about pot? Now if he actually causes damage other than his personal choices, kick him out. But if he just smokes pot, let him. He's not actually doing anything bad.
2007-02-18 13:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes, I would give them another chance but make sure they realize you will involve the law the next time. you could be in trouble with the law for letting them stay. definitely follow thru with the threat if it happens again.
2007-02-18 13:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by toyloy27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smoking pot is a big deal it is illigal and your kids are around it kick thoes pot smoking hippoies out oh by the way did im mention that it is ILLIGAL
2007-02-18 13:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by Rusty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him another chance. Pot shouldn't be a huge issue but make sure he knows if it occurs again, you'll involve the law. After all, even if it shouldn't be, it is illegal.
2007-02-18 13:15:13 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Second chances are silly in that situation. You're in legal jeopardy in today's legal climate. He almost certainly KEEPs marijuana around, and that's enough to get you in trouble.
Talk to your lawyer now!
2007-02-18 13:14:40 · answer #8 · answered by morerowstohoe 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
smoking pot isn't a big deal...
2007-02-18 13:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by kylexo 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋