I went 3rd base with my girlfriends the other day, thinking it was all new to us both. then last nite found out that she had already been there with a previoud boyfriend. what should i do, its kinda freaked me out? what would you do?
2007-02-18 05:00:22 · 18 answers · asked by grangeben 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Grow up.
2007-02-18 05:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Were you simply "thinking" she hadn't gone that far with someone or did she "tell" that she hadn't gone that far? If she told you that, then there's a serious trust issue to be handled; otherwise, don't make it a habit to assume that everyone is on the same level as you are. Just be safe in what you do at all times!!
2007-02-18 13:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by chocolat0511 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as she's faithful to you now and you really like her / love her then you can't worry about her past. That was then ... this is now. But, as far as being intimate be very careful....don't go any further then you're comfortable with...always both of you use protection ...... even if it's anal or oral.
2007-02-18 13:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by rhonda y 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she lied to you about this, what else could she be lying about. I think the both of you need to sit down and have a talk about where this relationship is going.
2007-02-18 13:03:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mom of Three 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a lot of girls lie about this to make the boyfriend feel special and so as he doesnt think she is a tramp basically dont worry about it just get on with it dont make a big deal of it. u coulda done the same if roles reversed maybe?????
2007-02-18 14:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by judrop111 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was embarrassed or maybe she wanted you to think she was a virgin. she may have been worried you would think badly of her or that you wouldn't go all the way/
Think best way is to sit down and have a chat. Ask the questions you want answered.
are you worried she's comparing you to her first experience????
2007-02-18 14:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm...
chill out.
Whats the big ordeal?!
U gonna dump her bcuz she's done more than you?
I dont really get it..
It is what it is. I mean, it might feel a little weird, sure, but it's no reason to leave the lady. Oh no, no.
2007-02-18 13:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by wildchild47236 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whats 3rd base? ..... She was probably embarresed to tell u she'd been with another bloke, if it bothers u that much talk to her about it n if u aint happy get rid
2007-02-18 13:06:38 · answer #8 · answered by Samantha c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I`d leave it alone. Maybe it`s an experience that she would rather forget. Just concentrate on yourselves and leave the past alone.
2007-02-18 13:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, if she told you she's never done it before and then said she did then that would be a problem just don't get too cought up in this situation
2007-02-18 13:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So what? Unless she told you she was a vestile virgin, she hasn't done anything wrong. Everyone's got past lovers unless they are virginal. I'm sure you've been with other girls before.
What's third base anyway???
2007-02-18 13:05:56 · answer #11 · answered by Minky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋