okay i have a fiance we are constantly having sex. im always in the gym or at work on top of that im at school. but is like six to seven times a day im having sex. i dont know how to control my urges. how do i tame this puppy.
2007-02-18 04:48:09 · 11 answers · asked by Cody 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
stop taking the Viagra
2007-02-18 04:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first ask yourself why do you feel the urges so much, also ask yourself why you feel it is wrong to want physical contact with your fiance so much??
asking yourself may help some but it is healthy to want physical contact. There are so many other ways that you could do that would alter this what you call constant urges. Yet it may be just your bodies way of asking you to feed it. Some believe sexual contact is spiritual speaking. Some also believe that love is a sexual expression not an emotional word speaking type of human thing.
Find your own answers and it will either help you when asked or over time you and your fiance will just tampered down on the sex part on your own. Kids will help when y'all decide to have'em,lol!
2007-02-18 12:55:26 · answer #2 · answered by redwater_01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whew! That is a high #! If that's not leaving enough time for you to do well in school--and if that's a priority for you, then go see an addiction therapist! Sex can be one of the most addictive forms of relieving stress, emotions of all kind! I encourage you to get on with your education and get your addiction into a workable enjoyment--one that enhances your life, rather than takes it over! Your fiancee sounds like he could use some therapy, too, developing some moderation. Does he go to school, too? Work? Good Luck!
2007-02-18 13:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by Martell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tame the Puppy by Praying, realize that this is Lust of the Flesh, but also realize that Man and Woman were created not to be alone but God created Woman to be with man as a helper and a
mate but do not let your desire of the flesh lead you into getting
involved with the wrong person just for a physical release search
first for the mate that shares your interests a relationship is better
when you have a Christian foundation when you meet the right one that shares your interests and also has a good solid relationship with God the sexual relationship will come in a legal
marriage and many other interests that you can share togeather as well.
2007-02-18 12:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by Zinderella 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you feel it is "too much"? Is it interfering with other aspects of your life - like your job or your friendships? If you and your fiance are happy with the frequency you guys are blessed. 6-7 times a day - wow.
2007-02-18 12:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to wear out your genitals! Find a therapist right away. That much sex on a daily basis can't be good for you.
2007-02-18 21:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your urges will likely slow down with time. If sex is interferring with your life you might have a sex addiction...if so you should see a therapist to be evaluated.
2007-02-18 13:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by steven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make it out like sex is a bad thing. As long as your fiancée doesn't have any reservations...
It takes two to tango
2007-02-18 12:54:18 · answer #8 · answered by Bugmän 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your fiance your wife. That will take care of it.
2007-02-18 12:58:36 · answer #9 · answered by steve.c_50 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you enjoy it so why would you want to stop wanting it. It's a GOOD thing.
2007-02-18 13:15:29 · answer #10 · answered by shorty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋