I have been ttc for more than a year and im to the point where i just think i should give up and it will never happen for me. has anyone else felt this way-- how do i get my faith back up?
2007-02-18 03:53:06 · 6 answers · asked by cali s 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Well i'm the same as you! Have been ttc for a year and every month when my period arrives i am gutted and tell myself i can't do this anymore and i'm giving up, but i never do because i believe this will happen but when my body feel like the time is right and lets face it a year isn't really that long when there are some people out there who have been trying at least 5 years. Just keep trying but try not to think about it that much just relax and enjoy the sex!!! I wish you all the luck in the world and hope your dreams come true soon!! x
2007-02-18 04:09:53 · answer #1 · answered by shygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been trying for a year, you may need to see a fertility specialist and get some testing done. Nothing is impossible. You get your faith back up by praying and believing, encourage yourself, know that everything happens for a specific reason and get up and take charge of this situation. See a specialist for this and get some answers. You are going to be just fine. This is just a test from God, believe on him. For He said, "Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart." That's a fact.
2007-02-18 15:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by MadameJazzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it one day at a time. Don't give up but don't let it consume you. You have to get yourself in a position where you don't let the issue control you. Yes it may be taking more time than you expected but that doesn't mean it's not going to happen. Tell yourself everyday, I have the blessing and my miracle will come. Out of the tongue we speak blessings and curses. Don't let your tongue get you in trouble because your heart will start to believe what you speak.
If you tell your self everyday that I'm walking in my victory and this baby is coming. People may think your crazy but you keep trusting and know that it's in order for God to bless you!!
Stay blessed!
2007-02-18 13:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by partknit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you had a fertility work-up? this might be helpul in identifying why u haven't gotten pregnant?
i totally understand your frustration. all i can say is that there are so many success stories with women in your situation. most women that want to get pregnant do... thanks to God, advances in medicine and alternative medicine. you have to keep exploring the best way for you. God is just waiting to make a miracle out of you, and you will be blessed with a healthy baby.
2007-02-18 13:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by Roc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel this way all the time so I pray about it and it brings my faith back. your not alone ive been ttc my self
i wish you baby dust.
2007-02-18 13:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by chris w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you desparately try to conceive, you're stressing out. Stress can hamper your efforts. Just have fun in the bedroom, and when the time is right, it will happen. :)
2007-02-18 12:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by smiling_nonstop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋