I don't think I wanna go for it, but would things become ruined if it doesn't work?

Question

I've been wondering a tiny, tiny, tiny, tiny, minnie, minnie, small, small bit about going for a love relationship with my lebian friend. I've always been straight. In fact, there was a time period I that I thought homos and bi were a discrace and very weird. I think I MIGHT have a feeling deep inside that I don't see yet. I've found woman attractive, but NEVER enough to make me say, "Mmm, baby. Give me some of that!". In fact, they other night, the same I night I was hanging with her, I had a sex dream about us. I woke up very surprised. Should I maybe go for a relationship later down the road? Will it be ruined if we break up?

She told me she loves me.

But she didn't really ask me out since she knows I've been straight.

Answer 1

sounds like you have a bit of a curious side to you. if you are close friends with her, it wouldn't hurt to tell her about this side. rushing into a relationship with you are still uncertain about your sexual orientation might not be wise. maybe just take things slow. see if she's interested in you (who knows, maybe she only want to be friends). but sharing your thoughts would at least bring your friendship closer, and if you both decide you want to either experiment sexually or with a commitment/romance, then why not go for it?

Answer 2

i think its normal for girls to be curious and want to experiment. Maybe it's not so much that you want a relationship but that you would just like to experiment sexually. And going for a relationship with your friend is taking the same chance as with a guy...it either works out or it doesnt...you either stay friends or you don't, depends on the reason for ending things and how mature and capable you are of maintaining a friendship afterwards. Well anyway, good luck!