I am the coxswain of the mens crew (rowing) team at my university. I'm the only girl on the all guy team i'm small and i yell row and other things along those lines. Thing is they need me, not many other girls would sacrafice 3 hours of everyday to them.
At a party last night some of my rowers were there, all of them are like my brothers except for one who always gives me a hard time (mostly jokingly) and I just ignore it.
Last Night the one who is rude told me he hated me and when I went to pick something up threw an empty beer can at my head.I was very intoxicated myself and freaked out pushing his head very hard and screaming "JUST STAY AWAY FROM ME."
I considered quitting last night because of him. We have a team work out at are schools gym this morning, he left a long apoligie on my phone last night I believe after I told another rower what happened crying my eyes out.
What do I say 2 him this morning? Do I tolirate this from someone who is supposed 2 respect me?
2007-02-18 03:17:32 · 5 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Sports ➔ Other - Sports
It hurts me to know he hurt you in that way..i believe he learned a lesson and would suggest you forgive him,but he has to be more respectful to you from now on..Your teams drinking does not help with this sport,it might cause your team to lose in the long run..
2007-02-18 03:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit and think about what you want to say before going to him...Be forceful and let him know that you will not tolerate this behavior at all and the next time....even an ugly remark you will file a formal complaint. If you just meekly say OK, he will continue to treat you badly. Good luck but don't think on it too long, just enough so you are composed and don't forget anything.
2007-02-18 03:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by Petra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello coxie megan you sure do not have to tolerate that kind of abusive tollerance at all you should get the respect you deserve and alchol will do that every time dear me myself love and respect all you ladies for all the good you gals do every day for everyone i want to give you a big hug for all your good efforts that you do every day
2007-02-18 03:33:00 · answer #3 · answered by haroldgardner62002006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like neither of you were thinking clearly. If you were both drunk then you have no right to hold anything against him. Who knows how things would have been if one of the two of you had been sober.
2007-02-18 03:27:56 · answer #4 · answered by njdss4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that hi chum we r a team and that i visit teach appreciate to you once you commence exhibiting me some appreciate and that i choose all of us to be one happy family individuals so cant all of us purely get alongside.
2016-10-15 22:41:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋