Purely hypothetical because moving on is all best, but say you realized you want to try to get back with your ex spouse at some point in time. Anyone had any luck and what did you do?
2007-02-18 03:08:15 · 8 answers · asked by PuckDog 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Im not just lonely and miss her, or horny. I been out with other people. I know its a long shot and I plan to wait a long while before even attempting to contact her. But hind site is 20/20 and I blew a good thing. No one cheated, we just needed some changes and went the easy route out. One day I would like the opportunity to make things right. Do second chances ever come along?
2007-02-18 09:20:07 · update #1
Be CLEARLY ABLE TO SHOW THAT YOU'VE GROWN AND CHANGED in areas that destroyed your marriage. If you were hostile and aggressive.... demonstrate long term, sustaining changes to gentleness and sensitivity. If you were dishonest, then prove integrity and honesty. If you fought poorly, show good judgment when disagreeing. If you were a bore, get some personality. Nuff said!!!
2007-02-18 03:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by Wisdom??? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-08 07:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a point where you want to move on, it was best for me to do so. Moving away is the best thing because that is what I did too, I played it smart too. I met someone else meanwhile, I had to leave in order to quit giving my power away in anger.
Today, I have no reason to be angry or anyone pestering me, I believe I met my soul mate who would never cheat.
Maybe it is time to start dating again, that will help you get over your ex faster. Something had to happen drastically where you moved away.
Some people never change, maybe you had a vulnerable moment and acted on a pretense. I would really think of a relationship with honorable intentions because I am older and wiser.
It would make your hair stand up if I told what I have been through.
2007-02-18 04:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I recently tried to reconcile with my wife of nine years after we had been apart for six months. I had not filed for divorce yet and after moving 1300 miles away had a lot of time to think and decided I wanted to try and make it work again. I called her and just blurted out "I REALLY miss you and love you" which was really tough because it made me vunerable. She actually seemed very open to the idea and our dialogue on the subject continued for three months before I found out that she had fallen in love with a convicted violent felon living in a pre-release center.
Consequently, I had to go through the pain of letting go all over again. Just think carefully about it and only do it for the right reasons and not because you are lonely or horny. Good Luck!!
2007-02-18 03:18:35 · answer #4 · answered by Mon-chu' 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it, u are just missing her and it wont work ,I am on my 3 try after breaking up and it is not working but I think I finally accept it aint gonna work.wasted 5 years doing this
2007-02-18 04:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went on trying to make something of myself.
The ride with the ex has been bumpy and it is STILL.....
25 yrs later........
2007-02-18 03:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her and wait. Let her know you still love her. Her love may come back in time.
2007-02-18 03:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by foodguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship was so bad that she became your ex then I would say that she should stay just that...your ex!
2007-02-18 03:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋