why do i get so much crap for dating a white guy? and for some reason i get most of the crap for black guys, when they are the ones who date outside of their race more than anyone else, and when i say well u date white girls they tell me that that is different how is it different. And then they will say that i am too fine and pretty to date a white boy???
not all black guys do that, but i just want to know what's up with this!
i just want to understand does it remind some of you of slavery or something that is what my friend told me
2007-02-18 02:59:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
umm well my computer makesmy avatar look a light brown and i am black but i look mixed.
2007-02-18 04:02:58 · update #1
I think your slavery concept is pretty sound,the idea in some black mans mind of a white guy using a black woman like some tool for pleasure or something. I've seen it before including coming close to have some serious violence put my way when I dated a black girl.
If you look at the psychology of it I think it's a misguided racial purity thing,as a black man goes with a white woman he sees it at some sub-conscience level as weakening a white bloodline when he and her have children,where as he sees it as diluting black bloodlines when a white man has children with a black woman. That's how I see it anyway.
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2007-02-18 03:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stupidity. It probably mess with their head and manhood. Some it probably come from the slavery thing white men raped black women. If it's good for black men to date white women, why can't black women date white men? They want to be the only ones dating outside the black race. I wouldn't pay them no mind. Interracial couples doesn't brother me but for some reason a lot of people are upset or angry when the union is black and white. It is still considered taboo. If that white man is treating you right, go for it. These black men are not taking care of you or paying your bills.
2007-02-18 06:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly talking from a white area i think of maximum black adult adult males purely think of it cool thus far a white woman (type of a tremendous holiday or something like that?) Now on the different hand it type of strangely for a white guy thus far a black woman yet who's conscious of why? Its to undesirable that god gave us all diverse colorations on the exterior yet on the interior maximum folk people are purely comparable and in basic terms want companionship. perplexing question to reply to in a quick way yet possibly its jealousy or something like that? Oh properly sometime all the races would be mixed up and it won't make a difference who dates who or who marries who. properly good success on your relationship concern and if it is going further then that good because of the fact the international desires greater awareness couples of mixed kinfolk.
2016-12-17 18:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by gurrola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it bother you.
there is that stereotype of white men wanting to use Black women to fulfill a need.
As long as you know the type of man you're dating, and you love him.... then race shouldn't be an issue.
2007-02-18 03:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by venom! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, just do what you do. Dont pay them any mind. They're just jealous because they arent worthy enough of being with you. Honestly, black men arent that great and I give you props for dating a white guy. Shoot, I need to get me one. Play on playa!
2007-02-18 03:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let it bother u they are just haterz. if you really have feelings for some1 and they feel they same about you it shouldnt matter what gender or race your are. love is love, right? so dont let people get in the way of your relationship.
2007-02-18 04:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are black, why does your avatar look white?
2007-02-18 03:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by answer man 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It makes them feel less wanted... I get this all of the time too. I just laugh or ignore them... its kind of pathetic and hypocritical of them.
2007-02-18 08:24:35 · answer #8 · answered by Annabella Stephens 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the Native American!!!
Wahoo!!!
2007-02-18 03:04:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why do you care what black guys think...you have self hate anyway?
2007-02-18 03:02:08 · answer #10 · answered by butch 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋