Can you tell me what you think??
2007-02-18 02:47:22 · 16 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I am 17, my b/f is 17. Both of our families went on vacation together to a ski resort. Well our parents were busy and we went into the hot tub and they found us cuddling. They all got pissed off. What is wrong with finding your kids together in a bikini and swim shorts??
it wasn't anything past wandering hands and kisses.
His dad knows we have had se.x and is ok with it.
2007-02-18 02:47:31 · update #1
They told us to let them be, so we were
2007-02-18 02:52:02 · update #2
Humm look at the word family...As in "Family Vacation"...Although you were not having sex,that was not the place or time to do anything of that sort.
2007-02-18 04:14:01 · answer #1 · answered by jill@doodle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Parents' mission in life is to make sure you are a virgin until you're 45 years old.
Then, when you are 45 and you've never even had a date, they'll whine, "But I wanted grandchildren! Why didn't you give me any grandchildren?"
You didn't do anything wrong. In the future, be careful not to get caught doing anything that could even remotely be perceived as sexual.
2007-02-18 06:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by catrionn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong other then show off in public. You should have been more discreet and private. Most parents want respect from their children. They know you were being fresh, they just don't know how fresh you were with hardly any clothes on. Be careful before they lose respect for you.
2007-02-18 02:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ronnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because at the age of 17, you are not socially ready for adulthood, and your parents are still responsible for you. If what you did lead up to more, you could have gotten pregnant...and guess who would be taking care of it? Your parents, that's who.
2007-02-18 03:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by mamasquirrel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because that stuff leads to sex, and you're both under aged, and your parents are responsible for you and your mistakes.
I'd have dragged your sorry butt back to the hotel room, scolded you and made you stay within my sight for the rest of the trip. And probably for a while after we got home.
2007-02-18 02:51:39 · answer #5 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
They are upset because yal are their little babies...maybe the wandering hands was too much for their hearts to take...remind them that they did worse thn cuddle to have yall two...
2007-02-18 05:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by designrgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have fun in prison. you've broken the law. it is illegal for a minor to have sex with anyone. The adult may go to jail, too, for allowing statutory rape to occur. your parents have every reason to be mad at you for 'cuddling'. Not sure what ur view is, but I, a 15 yo guy, think you did everything wrong.
2007-02-18 03:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by Busta 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The main problem with you guys is that neither of you are (a) adults (b) old enough to decide whether you are both committed in the realtionship towards each other or not.
2007-02-18 02:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, there is no way for me to explain this to you-and for you to listen.
But years from now when you have a teenage daughter you will understand.
Kiss and Cuddle, but dont bump uglies ok?
2007-02-18 02:52:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
a lot of the problem could be that they just dont like to see their kids grow up. i dont have kids but have plenty of friends with younger sisters that i consider sisters of mine. i hate to see them grow up and find boys and sex. not because i dont trust them or think t hey dont know what they are doing, its just that i dont want them to grow up. parents dont like to see their kids get older. also, they want you to KNOW what you are doing. cuddling seems innocent but we all know what it leads to
2007-02-18 03:12:06 · answer #10 · answered by Greendge 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋