2007-02-18 02:44:50 · 10 answers · asked by Mark S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't cheat. I love my husband, and cheaters DO NOT love their spouses. If they say they do, they are LIARS.
2007-02-18 02:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Wow...that's sad that you would ask that. It takes a really insecure person to cheat on their spouse. I'm not married yet, but I haven't cheated on my boyfriend in the 2 years we've been together. I didn't have any eyes for other guys while I was in the process of getting my boyfriend. I will never cheat on him for the rest of our lives because we're both strongly passionate about not cheating. Cheating would ruin the best thing I have in my life. He is my lover and my best friend. I couldn't imagine life without him. If we were to break up I wouldn't know what to do with myself. He's so much a part of me now I'd probably go into a deep depression without him. I'm so used to him always being around it just feels right to turn around and have him there. I know 2 years isn't long for a relationship, but we truly are soul mates. If he were to leave me he would take a big part of who I am with him. Cheating is the worst thing anyone can do. It does more harm in the long run than it does good.
2007-02-18 10:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
We had married for 8 years but were well on our way to divorce anyway. We hadn't shared a bedroom in any way shape or form in over 2 years. It was with a friend and it wasn't planned he was being my shoulder to cry on and one thing lead to another. I don't regret doing it but wouldn't do it the same if I had it to do over again. I was 30 or 31 at the time.
Others don't be so quick to judge. I never would have thought I would have an affair until it happened. I was lonely and should have gotten divorced before it got that bad but I was afraid. You never know what your reaction will be in any given situation until you are in it.
2007-02-18 17:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by slg20fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i first cheated on my man [we weren't married] after i caught him with his pants down with another woman, i thought that was the only way to get back at him cause i know when i caught him it wasn't his first time cheating,only the first time being caught anyway i cheated on him and after-wards i felt like a low -life and i wish i hadn't done it, i just dont see how he could have done it and come home and look me in the face like nothing had happened i guess thats the difference between him and me like i said we werent married but had lived together for about 12 years and had kids together so now we are not together and i will be more careful about my next partner and know what is the right thing to do and what isnt by the way thanks for bringing back all these memories lol
2007-02-18 11:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by pinkpearlspetite 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Folks, you don't have to respond to every question. If you don't have an answer, move on. Berating someone for asking a question you don't like is pretty childish.
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I haven't cheated on my wife either. I've been lonely before on business trips, but I think you don't cheat on someone just because you have an opportunity. You have to want to.
2007-02-18 11:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you out of your mind? Why on Earth would I cheat on my wife? I made vows, a commitment, took on responsibility...
Oh... I see... this is about character, self respect, honor, integrity, words that have no meaning to anyone how might actually answer your question.
2007-02-18 10:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by David P 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It was the morning after our marriage. My wife was at the hotel pool when the maid came in and saw me naked. It was great. I was 20. The maid was around 35.
2007-02-18 10:51:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Not me. And to think you didn't even ask "have you" you asked when was the FIRST time. Pretty sad. I don't think many will answer this honestly.
2007-02-18 10:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by lucki female 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
How sad that this is the best question you can come up with. It says a lot about society today.
I haven't and wouldn't, I love and respect him too much............
2007-02-18 10:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by Mugsy's Place 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
never
2007-02-18 10:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋