I moved to baltimore city and don't know anyone. I only work with a couple people cause it's a small business. I'm shy and quiet until I get to know people. I don't like going places by myself.
2007-02-18 02:41:56 · 5 answers · asked by Ange 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I joined volunteer groups. There are many to select from. I met nice,good hearted people while helping my community.
2007-02-18 02:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by thirsty mind 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cities are tough because it's amazing how much a person can feel alone when surrounded by so many people. Here's my advice:
Seek the things you find enjoyable.
1. Take a class or a mini-course in something that interests you (cooking, pottery, art history, writing, language, literature, etc.). There are many options through community education programs, community colleges, and traditional colleges/universities. You are supposed to go to class alone, most of the time anyway, so there's no social awkwardness of having everyone else paired off or in groups. Then, being around a bunch of people who share similar interests may help you meet new friends.
2. Find yourself a regular haunt. Rather than sitting at home alone reading, paying bills, etc., find yourself a public place you like near your home or work (for convenience) and make yourself a regular. Coffee shops are great, but if you can too easily blow your budget in Java heaven, try other public places like the local library or a nearby park. Cities are great for the "free" spaces they offer. Just be sure to change your routine a bit. It can be dangerous to take the same exact route or be at the same exact place at the same time everyday . . . unfortunately these days, it is important to be on guard against potential predators; don't make a mugger's job easy by being too predictable.
3. Volunteer. You will be helping others, and you will almost certainly find new contacts/friends, people who share your interests and/or values.
Perhaps most importantly, be your own best buddy. Enjoy your own company. Be comfortable and confident with yourself---that quality alone tends to radiate, and if people see how self-assured you are, they may want to come and share your space. There's nothing more inviting than a pleasant person.
2007-02-18 11:10:45 · answer #2 · answered by Rennie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to the person who you think would be a good friend to you and start talking to them. If that person not good to be your friend stand tall and go to the next one. And if you afraid to go somewhere by yourself face your fears. You can do it!!
2007-02-18 11:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by stayblue4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm go to local places get to know people mingil you know what a mean
2007-02-18 10:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by beth f 4 eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by experience you get friends
2007-02-18 10:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋