I am very hardworking but hopelessly lazy. I can never reach on time to fulfill my appointments, however important they are. Especialy, i can't wake up at once. I need atleast an hour on bed before waking up and then half an hour to get to washroom.I am about to be sacked from my job and I never reach my lectures well in time. I've tried putting early alarams etc. but everything seems to be fail. Please tell me ways how can be smart. I live alone and can't cook food and lazy to go to restaurents. Pleas help me out. I am very upset with way of life. Please tell me the steps and any procedure to follow to make me active.
2007-02-18 02:38:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Self motivation is the onyl way to fix it. Like the first guy said. .only you can fix this. Think about what will happen when you don't get up on time or when you don't get to your lectures or dont' cook food for yourself. There isn't a magical way to make yourself stop being lazy. It takes time, motivation, and determination. Like the first guy said, try looking at hte opposite end. Look at all the people without jobs and without lives. They have nothing, maybe because they are lazy. Is that where you want to be? Thent ry thinking about the things you are gaining from not being lazy. Which is better - the things you gain. .or being lazy and not doing anything and gaining nothing but relaxation and failure? Think about it and think about it hard. Find your motivation and your determination and you should do find. It takes time and hard work to get outta bad habits so you better start now!
2007-02-18 02:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This kind of change has to come from within. Only you can change this sort of behavior, unless you have someone that will stand over you with a stick and get you moving. The best I can say is set up good personal habits, like get enough sleep, eat well, and focus on the prize - keeping your job, getting a degree, whatever it is that you want. Keep in mind the other end of the spectrum, too. Go find the local homeless shelter and volunteer to help out for an afternoon. See what kind of people are there, and decide which one you want to be.
2007-02-18 02:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trick yourself, if you have to, into getting an enthusiasm. Once you start doing the things you know you should it becomes perpetual just like the habit of dismissing the important things are to you now. I know...trick yourself? Well...isn't that what you're doing now?
2007-02-18 02:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by lawolifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EASY, PUT ON YOUR FAVORITE MOVIE VIDEO OR BLAST YOUR FAVORITE RADIO STATION THEN CLEAN OUT YOUR HOME AND TOSS OUT EVERYTHING YOU DON'T NEED AND DROP IT OFF AT YOUR LOCAL THRIFT STORE. GO BUY YOU SOMETHING COOL AND AS FOR FOOD I CAN COOK BUT I COOK I OVEREAT SO LEARNED GO MOMS HOUSE AND EAT OR INVITE YOUR SELF FOR DINNER AT A FRIENDS HOUSE. OR BEST OF ALL ASK YOUR FAVORITE PERSON OVER AND ORDER YOUR FAVORITE FAST FOOD DELIVERY. AND AS FOR WORK DON'T WORRY, DO YOUR BEST AND SHOW OFF YOUR TALENTS!
2007-02-18 02:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by lovepepsired 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋