Yeah im young and Wanting to have sex but iv never did it....I dont want a kid yet because iv seen my sister and my best friend pregnant at young ages, what should i do to convience myself im not that ready....
2007-02-18 02:32:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Offer to babysit all day, over overnight even. Once you realize how hard it is, and knowing that no matter what precautions you take, unless you don't have sex you could get a baby, you might rethink. Or search for all the various types of STD's. Look at pictures, read the symptoms. Some std's like HPV can be transmitted even while using condoms. Whoever you sleep with could turn out to be a jerk and spread it all over school that you had sex, then you are left with a reputation that will be hard to get rid of, plus from then on out some boys (not all) will want to date you thinking that you put out for everyone.
It's best to wait, make the first time special with someone you really love. If you don't there are chances that you will regret it later in life.
2007-02-18 02:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by ericamthompson 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are far too young to be thinking about having sex, and if you are asking on here then you are obviously not ready. Being "pretty sure" about it isn't good enough, you have to be absolutely sure. Talk to your boyfriend, tell him that this is much too soon and if he really cares about you then he will be patient and wait until you are both old and responsible enough. If he keeps pressuring you into it then dump him, your health, self-respect and well-being is much more important. Besides, you don't even know how long the both of you will last as a couple? A week? month? year? You just don't know and you don't want to regret giving away your virginity at such a young age and not saving it. Just be wise, enjoy having a platonic relationship for the moment, concentrate on school and if you and your boyfriend are meant to be in a few years from then, then perhaps then you can start taking things more seriously.
2016-05-24 02:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you can do is go and pick up your best friend's kid and your sister's baby and take care of both of them for three days. After that you'll not want to ever have sex. Sex is not just about fun and games. There is a responsibility that comes with it. If you have unprotected sex and get pregnant, guess what, You no longer come first in your life, that baby does and will continue to do so for the rest of your life. It won't be just about you anymore. You'll have a mouth to feed and someone who will depend on you for a long time coming. Sound like fun yet? So until you think you may be ready for all the responsibility that comes with have sex, how about just waiting awhile until your truly ready. Good luck.
2007-02-18 02:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by kell01 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If all you've seen hasn't convinced you that you want more for your life than that I doubt a bunch of strangers will have any impact.
You have a choice right now whether you want to be another statistic or whether you want a full and rich life. Having children at a very young age doesn't just mess up your life, it continues down the generations.
Education, hard work, self respect, dignity--it's not flashy but it works every time. Sex will be there when you're older, wiser and more together and with someone it means something with. I know it sounds hopelessly boring but trust me you'll never regret living a life to be proud of and you'll always regret going against your gut and your gut says wait or you wouldn't have posted this.
Good luck! Go be a huge shining example instead of a miserable warning!
You can do it!
2007-02-18 02:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by Lori 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just dont have sex. The first time it hurts, and it continues to hurt every time for a while. And once it stops hurting it takes a while for it to even feel good. Besides that, sex at a young age is nothing more than trying to fill that empty feeling inside and convince you that someone loves you. But the thing is, it will leave you feeling even more worthless than before.
Has some value in yourself has a person, and as a woman. Wait until you're an adult, or better yet, married.
If you do decide to have sex, go to plannedparenthood.com, find a local office, and get on the pill first.
2007-02-18 02:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My advise would be to not start! At least wait until you are 18 and out of high school.
If you want to know what having a baby would be like, go spend a day at a daycare in the baby room. Or go spend the night with someone who has a baby and offer to take care of the baby during the night for them.
You are 15, go have fun and enjoy being a teenager. Enjoy being young and not having responsibilities. You have the rest of your life to have sex and have a baby. But you'll never get a chance to be a teenager again.
2007-02-18 03:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by army_sister785 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not old enough to be responsible yet. Take your time and do your research to curb some of your curiosity. Sex may disappoint you. I have worked with young people for years, and most say they were not happy the first time because they expected much more. Learn who you are as a person, and who you want as a partner. Relationships take a least a year to build. Don't be fast because of others. Be aware of all the risks.
2007-02-18 02:48:07 · answer #7 · answered by Ronnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the fact that you are asking the question, means you know the answer. You aren't ready! No matter what is happening around you, waiting for the right guy and the right circumstances is worth it. Being young and easy is no goal. If you do this now, you will always regret it. Live for a while and keep your whits about you.
2007-02-18 02:38:49 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you start having sex that doesn't mean you have to get pregnant. When you do feel ready talk to you boyfriend before and discuss protection. But you must be really sure that you want to start having sex and feel ready and mature enough and as your doubting it then it doesn't sound like you are ready. Your first time should be special trust me when i say you WILL remember it for the rest of your life! Wait until you are older and in a steady relationship and the both of you feel ready but most importantly remember protection!!!!
2007-02-18 04:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by shygirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
easy just don;t it stay active in other things such as sports school and keep telling your self your are to young to be a mother the only sure way to prevent you from getting pregnant is not to have sex .please Waite until you are really sure if you are ready you will know it when your are ready and the time is right.the best part about waiting is you won;t have any regrets about any thing .you have your whole life ahead of you .HAVE A LIFE BEFORE YOU GIVE A LIFE .that way you will have more to offer your child
2007-02-18 02:40:56 · answer #10 · answered by ann p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋