2007-02-18 02:32:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well i don't think the husband should say it isn't OK he isn't the rule -maker just because they are married they should ideally set the rules together as a couple.we don't know all the details about the two am thing but i don't think its OK if the spouse is not OK with it
2007-02-18 02:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by pinkpearlspetite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not really about getting permisison - it's about respect. I can't say I've never done it, but my husband was really hurt and confused. He doesn't go out with me very often, so I try to do it when he works late, but still home before 10. A married woman doesn't need much more than a dinner and a few drinks with her friends. Much more than that (frequently, not occassionally) would raise suspicions. Of this is a one time thing and the husband is being a jealous freak, then maybe things need to be looked at beyond this one incident.
2007-02-18 03:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by lucki female 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is ok if you know shes with her friends. She may be married but we don't live in a country where the man has final say in what a woman can or can't do. If you have that big of a problem with it then sit down and talk to your wife and let her know how you feel and talk it out. And if you think she is cheating then you can always hire a private investigator to tail her and find out for sure. But like i said just because shes married doesn't mean that she can't still have a life.
2007-02-18 02:39:19 · answer #3 · answered by hotmamainmi1982 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Only if the husband says it by phone from his girlfriend's bedroom. Get serious! If the wife needs to be out at 2:00AM then evidently there really isn't a marriage there. If it were a husband asking to be out at 2:00AM he be labeled a Ho chaser.
2007-02-18 02:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is all about respect. All those bimbos who are whining about the guy being controlling are exactly that, bimbos. Not letting her out until 10 pm is controlling. Staying out until 2 a.m. is ridiculous. If she wanted to live like a single woman then she should have stayed single. SHE MADE A COMMITMENT TO MARRIAGE!!! It is no longer about what SHE wants, it's about what is best for the MARRIAGE!!!!
The vast majority of DUI related incidents occur between the hours of 2 and 4 a.m. and there are only two reasons to be on the streets at that time... you are an idiot, or you HAVE to be.
As to the wife in question... kick her to the curb... she obviously has no respect for her husband or the marriage she supposedly "committed" to. She isn't worth yours or any ones time.
And to all those who support her right to be an irresponsible skank... take a long hard look at your character you'll find it hanging in you closet next to your Paris Hilton / Britney Spears "I'm a whore" party dress.
2007-02-18 02:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No Its not okay. She is being disrespectful of your feelings. Whats going on here? If she is not happy with your relationship, then the two of you need to talk. Her behavior is unacceptable. She can certainly go out with friends once in a while, but staying out till 2 is asking for trouble. Men will get the wrong impression of her situation, and she will be inviting attention from them without meaning to. Or mabe she does want it. You have trouble my friend. Better get to the bottom of what the real issues are in your relationship.
2007-02-18 02:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way! What is your wife doing out until 2:00 am? I am no professional but this isn't going to work for you two unless she stops this! When you get married you two become a team and she should be with you at night not out by herself until 2:00 am. Sir I smell trouble coming your way!! I would sit her down and ask her what she is doing and with who! My brother went through the same thing as you are going through and they are not together anymore! I hope this is some help for you and good luck!
Bruce
2007-02-18 05:04:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is HUSBAND, not husben. And no, I think that if you have expressed that you don't want her out that late and she does it anyway then she is telling you that what you feel is not important to her. The best way to handle this is to do something that she has let you know she does not want you doing. And when she gets mad and she will, tell her that if she wants you to respect her wishes then you will respect hers.
2007-02-18 03:07:04 · answer #8 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every once in awhile I will go with some coworkers (friends) out to the bar... we will drink, dance and talk. Sometimes I dont get home till 3 am thats when it closes, sometimes later if we go get a bite to eat afterwards. There is nothing wrong with that. Its called TRUST.
2007-02-18 04:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by MSCLEN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if the husband doesn't agree, it is not asking for permission. Things like this should be based on both agreeing on what is proper in your house. Second, I don't see why a married woman would be out until the middle of the night without her guy. It sounds like she is loose and maybe marriage isn't her priority.
2007-02-18 02:42:19 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋