does a parent have to go with you to get an underage abortion in Oklahoma? Kansas? Texas?

Question

i'm pregnant and i dont want to tell my parents but i want an abortion really bad! I just want to know if I can go somewhere around this area to get it done without a parent!

I'm 16 and I really want this done!

Answer 1

If you really want this done then maybe you should have thought about the consequenses of your actions. Have you seen the horrible photos of these poor unborn children that get aborted? It is horrifying and it makes me cry. And no unborn child deserves that. Suction abortion rips the fetus into pieces it separates their limbs and head from their body. How would you like to have your arms ripped off?
I would give my life to insure the safety of my unborn and unplanned child. I would never take this little miracle for granted.
Who knows if you abort this child due to your immature actions, it may be your only God given chance to ever have a child... and if that is the case then I think you deserve it.
This unborn baby didn't ask for you to create it. It deserves a chance to live and to be loved. Put it up for adoption and give it a chance.

Answer 2

First of all, you need to tell your parents. I know that it will be hard for you, but they can help you through this. You are young, but that does not negate the fact that you are carrying a baby. There are many couples out there that are praying and desiring to have children that cannot and are looking to adopt. I have a personal experience with that- I am adopted and have 2 adopted kids. We all respect and love our birth moms very much for what they decided to do. All three of us could have died- if our moms had decided to have an abortion. Beside the obvious- abortions can be very dangerous for you- it can cause infections, torn uterus, miscarriages later, also sometimes women cannot conceive at all after abortions. Emotional risks are high- Your child has no say in this, do the right thing, for you and your baby. If you want to talk some more you may email me. God bless,

Answer 3

In all of the states you mentioned, it is illegal for a minor to abort her child without notifying and/or obtaining the consent of her parent(s). Have you considered the fact that abortion is very dangerous and could permanently damage you physically? When a woman is pregnant, her cervix is tightly closed to protect her baby. Forcing the cervix open often causes tearing and can lead to permanent damage, particularly in teenagers. Abortion is a "blind procedure." The abortionist cannot see what he is doing after he inserts sharp instruments into your womb, but must go by "feel." He may easily puncture your uterus, bowel, or bladder. You really need to take a look at this information before you do something you may regret the rest of your life:

Abortion Risks:
http://www.teenbreaks.com/abortion/complicationsgirls.cfm
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp

Abortion Deaths:
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm

Did you know that just three weeks after conception, your baby's heart is already beating? By six weeks, she has tiny fingers and recordable brain waves. By seven weeks, she is moving in the womb. If her cheek is stroked, she will turn her head. Even though you can't see your baby right now, she is real and alive and depending on you for protection. Do you know what abortion does to your baby? If not, you need to see this:

Photos and Video of Abortions, Including 1st Trimester Abortions:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html

Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
http://www.lifeissues.org/ultrasound/11weeks.htm

Like it or not, you are a mother now and you are responsible for the little baby inside you. Do not let her down. You need to be strong and do the right thing. If you need help, please go to a pregnancy care center. All of their services are free and confidential. They can help you receive financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance; give you a free ultrasound so you can see your baby (at many centers); give you free maternity and baby supplies; and talk through all your fears and concerns with you. You can find one in your area by calling 1-800-395-HELP or visiting:
http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp

For more help and support, you can connect with other pregnant teens here:
http://standupgirl.com/site/index.php

Answer 4

You can always go to planned parenthood and see. I don't know about those states laws.

It is your decision in the end. I am a young mom and I was terrified of telling my mom. But she ended up taking it alot better then I thought..BUT, I know ever family is different. And some girls need to do the abortion for there own safety. If that is the situation for you, then good luck and I hope you are able to get it. But if not, please think about it before you do it. This is a huge decision that you will live with for the rest of your life..

Answer 5

First of all, you need to really think about that and make sure that's what you really want to do. It is a decision you will never forget. I don't know how old you are, but I can't imagine that living with yourself after killing your unborn, innocent baby would be better than living with angry parents. They would eventually get over it and I think it would be better for you to be open and honest with them. You may not see that now, but one day, hopefully sooner than later, you'll be a parent and you'll see what I'm saying. There are clinics in most places that will help with those decisions and give you info on where to go.

Answer 6

I don´t believe in abortion you should deal with the consequences.Before even thinking of that go to the following website and have a look at what you are going to do to that innocent child, which have the right to live...

http://biblia.com/abortion/photos.htm

Answer 7

Best bet is to call and ask: 1-800-230-PLAN

Usually if there are parental consent or notification laws you can get a judicial bypass.

Answer 8

Haven't looked it up but all these states are very conservative and I doubt it. I know its a hard time for you now, but there are so many loving, financially stable couples praying for children who you could give the baby to. Talk with your mom, and please use protection!

Please looks this page up: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abortion_law Good Luck!

Answer 9

No you have to be of age, what if something terrible goes wrong while your having this done? Tell your mom, talk to her about this she should know that way she can help you through it, what is your age?

Answer 10

Here you go: http://www.silentscream.org