My guy friend is awesome and I like him a lot but he is going out with my other really good friend. I dont want to break them up but it seems all my close friends are guys and they dont seem to like me as more than a friend. I am not ugly and I like to think I am a lot of fun to be around. Is there something I am missing here? I am the only one of my friends without a boyfriend and being a fifth wheel is not fun.
2007-02-18 02:24:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I dont want to STEAL him from her but I did like him first. I have a lot of guy friends that tell me about all the OTHER girls they like and I wonder if maybe I am just another guy to them
2007-02-18 03:02:11 · update #1
You can't make someone like you. They have to feel the same about you from the very beginning.
Also, I think you should just let it go. He's with your friend & you don't want to hurt her.
Friends should always come before guys, no matter how much you like them. I'm sorry that the guy you like has to be your friend's boyfriend, but you don't want to hurt her.
Think about it: what is more important? Getting with the guy or keeping a real friend? Boyfriends don't last long at this age, anyways.
Good luck!
2007-02-18 05:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy friends except for when I'm around a catty woman and she's making a catty comment that men just never seem to get. I figure comments that bypass a man's ear only to be heard by the other female means that women have a highly trained ear much like a dog whistle to a B**** Ya got me on the second half done both. Great when it happens..sucks when it's over. Then if ya don't act it sucks to see him with someone else if you really like him. I'd say try it anyway?
2016-05-24 02:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like you are interested in what he does, even if isn't something you would do on a regular basis. a guy would like it if there was someone who would hang out with him and show that they have interests like him, but you shouldn't do everything with him or he may think something is up. also, tell him if he wants to talk about anything, he could talk to you and make sure you listen to him otherwise he will lose interest in thinking you would be a friend.
2007-02-18 02:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by Roxas of Organization 13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be happy his your friend and nothing less, you shouldn't always go looking for relationships you should let them come to you, you just have fun while you can relationships take alot of you.
2007-02-18 02:29:17 · answer #4 · answered by teasefreak09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get anyone to "like" you, it's not possible. We're all human and we have feelings, but you can't get someone to like you and if they like you, they can't get you to like them. You should just wait for him (besides, what if he becomes single and you guys date but then you two break up?).
2007-02-18 02:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by kunversita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to make this guy jeaolous or another guy u like
2007-02-18 02:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by girls just wanna have fun! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg get ova yourself u should'nt steal sum1 elses bf
2007-02-18 02:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by beth f 4 eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax, your time will come...you can't make a guy like you, it just happens...so forget about that...just wait your turn.
2007-02-18 02:31:30 · answer #8 · answered by Steelhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stealing someone else's boyfriend isn't the answer.
2007-02-18 02:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just express urself or sleep with him.
2007-02-18 02:41:13 · answer #10 · answered by Cant stop thinking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋