My wife preferred endowed man....?

Question

Married for just over a year and I have loved and cared for my wife very much. Two weeks ago she mentioned her previous partner was at least 10". It shocked me for her saying that though perhaps not surprised as there was never any intimacy and always felt there was something not right or I was not big enough for her at 7.5". I have just found out my wife had an affair several months ago with a large man again. This is really heartbreaking but I just wonder out of all this if a she had experience with an endowed man before she only wouldn't be happy with less. Is it true from a woman experience the feelings are so much better from an endowed man.

Answer 1

Your wife married you knowing how large your penis is. And honestly 7.5 is great. First of all it is horribly inappropriate for a woman to tell her husband about the size of her exboyfriend's penis. There is no reason for her to say something that would hurt you or make you feel less of a man. Second your wife if using penis size as an excuse for her trampy behavior.

Penis size only matters a little. I mean if you have 4 inches I can see where that would not be great. But 7.5 is more than enough. I actually find that anything like 8-10 is just too much. It can actually be painful. So you should not listen to any of that nonsense.

She has sex with another man. How do you know how big this man's penis is? Tell me she did not tell you! If she did that is just cruel. I hope you really do not think that is the reason that she cheated. I mean what did she do walk around asking men she knew how big they were and then said ok want to do it? I doubt it. I think she cheated because she is weak minded, dishonest and a terrible wife.

You need to do decide if you want this marriage. I am not a big fan of divorce. I feel like marriage is sacred and that it should not be entered into lightly and it should not be left unless it is really bad. However, if your wife is not behaving like a wife and she is emotionally waging war on you then maybe you should get out. If you are going to think about divorce do it now before she brings home a STD or before there are children in the mix. Have you thought about counseling or speaking to a clergy person? Is she in this marriage for the long haul? Her actions say she is not.

Whatever you do you need to realize that this is not your fault. You can not be responsible for someone elses actions. Good luck.

Answer 2

The answer to this is just like everything else. It is determined by individuals for the most part. So women say size doesnt matter, while others will faint over a large penis.

If she is cheating, she is using whatever excuses she needs to use in order to justify herself. 4" or 12", they will still find reasons to be upset, mad, pissy and to cheat dude. Dont buy here lines, for that is all they are. Instead of putting the blame on herself for being a s l u t t y, adulterous women, she is attempting to make it your fault somehow.

I would suggest that you sink this wenches ship. Go after her with a vengence she cant imagine as yet. Married only a year and this is how she is treating you? Dude, she likes big penis? I would make sure I was the biggest d i c k that I could be and screw over her well.

Answer 3

Forget the size thing. You're married just over a year and your wife had an affair a few months ago? What size is your brain? You seem more concerned with endowment than her faithfulness. No wonder she cheated. By the way, did she know this guy had a big one before she went out with him? Did he pull it out and then ask her if she was interested. Something's not right with your question. I don't buy it as being truthful.

Answer 4

Remember friend - it's not the size of the package, but how technilogical a device is. There is more than one part of a man's body that can bring his woman within an inch of peeling her off of the ceiling. Maybe you should investigate by looking into some self help books or porno tapes for some ideas. Oh and by the way - if she has already had an affair - dyump her and find someone else to practice honing your skills.

Take it from someone who has been called a human sex machine.

Answer 5

Honestly you are above average at 7.5.... so I don't know what her problem is. 10 is just way tooooooo much seriously. Anyway I think your issues are deeper than your size. Yall need to sit down and have a heart to heart. I mean if her breast were only a c and you really liked d's, would that make you cheat? No. You would cheat because you wanted to. She knew what she was gettin from the get go.

Answer 6

Physically women only feel about 3 inches inside her and then the nerve endings just stop. Psychologically it's a different story. I too prefer larger men, but surely your wife knew what she was getting into? And had seen your penis before marriage. Besides 7.5 inches is not at all a small penis. Studies have shown the average penis is anywhere between 4 and 6 inches, so 7 inches is fine. You need to talk to your wife and maybe consider counselling. Something other than penis size is driving your wife to affairs.

Answer 7

As a woman, the feelings that come from sexual energy are not dependent on the size of a man penis. Great sex involves not only physical sensations but also mental and emotional feelings.
I would bet if she cheated it had less to do with the size of the other mans penis, and more to do with the emotional intimacy.

Answer 8

Forgive me for being disrespectful, but your wife is a hoe. She knew you were 7.5 and married you anyway. Now she's cheating and looking for a reason to blame it on you. I can say size doesn't matter, but you can't let yourself be treated this way. Already a year into the marriage and she's cheating? That's crazy. You should talk to her about it and maybe seek counseling. If you that doesn't work, leave her. There's plenty of faithful women out there that'll love your 7.5!

Answer 9

It's time to see the light let her have what she wants freedom.Let her go before she runs you in the ground.Or gives you some kind of disease.Sorry guy a lot of use have been there it's not going to be easy.Just safer, & an ease of mind.When it over. Remember anyone can have a cheater but who wants to keep one as you can't. Look foward good luck.

Answer 10

Size has very little to do with how good the sex is. However maybe your wife is really stretched out and not very tight any more and she needs a bigger size to feel anything. That could explain her preference. She was rude and inconsiderate to even bring this up to you.