i am 31 year,my penis size short , solve my problem?

Answer 1

Hey, don't freak out! I bet compared to some, your size is quite well-endowed; look up the syndrom 'micropenis' for some perspective. That said, I do know that in our size-obsessed world, it's hard to be anything less than pornstar big, and less than average can be downright frightening, making men avoid physical intimacy and causing a lot of stress in general.

My answer is that there are a lot of women who are perfectly fine with a smaller penis, and, sadly, there are a lot who simply won't accept it. You should remember, though, that there are things you can do to make yourself more sexually palatable:

1) You can try using a penis extender. They are stretchy 'sleeves' with a penis head that you snug firmly over your erection and it adds up to several inches- putting you at average male erection size and allowing for deeper penetration if that's what your lady has been missing. They're sold at good, reputable online sex stores; look around.

2) You don't have to use your penis. Honestly, I know it sounds like a cop-out and something to make you fee like less of a man, but real men aren't afraid to use whatever resources they have to in order to please both them and their partner in bed. Some men wear strap-ons over their flaccid penises and penetrate their wives/girlfriends that way (then you can give it to her as big as she wants!), some keep a dildo in the drawer next to the bed, still others become skillful with their fingers/hands. In my opinion, being skillful with your fingers and a dildo is something every man should have, no matter how big a stick he swings. If you can do this, you can provide your lady sensations that your penis maybe can't (like G-spot stimulation), and after she's had her fill, she can go about pleasing you as well.

3) Perfect your other techniques! Oral sex is an amazing thing that pretty much everyone loves when it's done well (even when it's not). This only increases your sexual currency.

4) Remember that your smaller penis is not necessarily a cause for concern. Almost all women orgasm from clitoral stimulation, NOT from penetrative sex. Some women experience orgasms from G-spot stimulation, which occurs by means of penetration, but believe me, many men with huge penises can't find or stimulate a woman's G-spot. As far as the actual in-'n'-out thrusting is concerned, only a tiny percentage of women actually orgasm from that itself, and it's not the size so much as it is the the friction against the vaginal walls. Only if she has a particularly large vagina or one that's been loosened (as through childbirth) will a smaller penis truly make a difference in sensation. So you might want to keep that in mind, as well as the real selling point: oral sex is a lot easier with a smaller mouthful!

5) Do not try to enlarge your penis. Don't buy into all those ideas of creams and pumps and whatnot; they don't work. There are only two ways I know of increasing your penis size, and they are both expensive surgical procedures that will drain your wallet and not really leave you with anything that fantastic. Penile agumentative surgery cuts a tendon to allow the penis to hang lower, adding an additional inch or two; however, it only increases flaccid size, since it changes just the way the penis hangs, not its actual size when erect. Sometimes fat is also injected into the penis to add girth (sort of a reverse liposuction), but there's no telling where the fat will move, so some men get an awful effect known only as the dreaded 'lumpy penis'. Neither sound that good in my opinion.

6) And lastly, try to find yourself a woman who will accept you for who you are. If you find someone who cares for you, she should be willing to make what you've got work for both of you. The thing I always hear on sex show after sex show is men calling in complaining about their small penises. The host always asks "How does your girlfriend/wife/parnter feel about it? Does she think it's too small?", and the answer is invariably "Well, no, she says it's fine, but . . .". Men just seem to freak themselves out, when they don't need to.

I hope that helps you, and remember not to stress!

Answer 2

First start thinking with the big head, your penis is only involved because thats what gives you pleasure, but you can be a very good lover by using other parts of your body, fingers and tongue, come to mind, women,(most women), love a guy to go down on them, you can produce a much stronger and more orgasms using your hands, fingers, lips,and tongue, don`t worry about penis size, it wont make it grow, and you will give yourself so much anxiety, that your performance will suffer, and then you become anxious about that, gets worse, so the only thing you can do is improvise and learn what successful lovers who suffer from the same problem you feel you have, dont take things so serious, be confident you can step up and be as great in bed as you want, just learn what it takes to really sartisfy a woman, its not a penis, its confidence,and knowing where you need to focus attention on

Answer 3

More than 50 % male have penis size from 2 inch to 4 inch, after full erection it may vary from 2.5 inch to 6 inch. So this is very normal, but these are real secrets. The so called medicines to increase size never work at all. Dont try it. Thousands of people live with this very normal. Accept the things as it is. Never mind. Never feel shame. Contact expert doctors, who will teach you size doesnt matter. Take little care while selecting wife, if she is from good quaility family, you will enjoy life. If u r already married, doctor will guide u further.

Answer 4

Well, I assume since your on here, your gay. Being a bottom can be such fun. Giving BJ's and reciving another mans penis.
Topping with a short penise can be difficult, although I have been with men of all sizes. Nothing wrong with short ones, as the big ones can really hurt. Yeah, there fun to look at and play with, but not much else you can do with them. Just have fun and enjoy yourself, and realize that when someone wants to be with you, they'll enjoy what you DO have.

Answer 5

There isn't much you can do to make it bigger, I'm afraid. What you need to do is find a man who isn't hung up on penis size, and be with him. For me, personality is much more important than that; and I am sure that there are lots of people out there who feel the same way.

Answer 6

consider your options...

you could increase your tonguing techniques (use the alphabet method)

use fingers, dildos, or other objects in the room to get her off, and wait with getting yourself off until later in the act...

or there's always penile enlargement surgeries...

what ever your choice though, don't attempt the car thing... that'll get your little buddy ripped off... [try explaining that to the paramedics...]

it's not the size of your member that matters, it's the overall performance and techniques that matter... unless she wants the titanic...

Answer 7

You're 31 and you're just beginning to worry about this now?

Answer 8

Tie it to the bumper of a car, and have the car pull forward, that will stretch it out a little

Answer 9

whats short?

Answer 10

hi,

what is urs actual size..........

And y r u feeling it is short..... urs partners satisfication is not based on length,,, so dont bother abt urs length