2007-02-18 01:27:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
The bible tells us to refrain from sexual immorality of which premarital sex is one of them. It is not a command from God to make us miserable, he is telling us this to protect us from hurt and harm. Refraining from sex protects not only our human body but our spirit and soul and self esteem. I regret the fact that I did not wait, I know my life would have turned out much differently had I only followed Gods lead for my life instead of my own.
2007-02-25 08:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by evertoldalie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 48 year old man that has been with the same lady for 26 years. I wish I had not had premarrital sex because once we were married it was like not a big deal . If you have the opportunity to stay a virgin till you get married , I believe your partner will truely believe that you belong to them because you waited for them . I hope my daughter stays a virgin till she finds the right man . It is a difficult world to fight peer pressure . Sex is meant for a man and a woman after they are married . End of story .
2007-02-25 18:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by westhighland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a childish thing. But i know young people nowsaday cannot control, but one thing they should do is at least take precaution. If not what if the girl get pregnant, who going to take care of the child. And traditionally, many adult would be considered a disgrace to their family or culture.
So i think married first then have sex.
2007-02-24 23:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by paesk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can honestly say that i don't believe in marriage anymore. the only person that i know that is truly happy in their marriage is my mom (2 years) everyone just seems like they put up with their spouse, which is the same thing i find myself doing in the relationship i am in now.( we aren't married but live together and have two children.) if it ever comes up i may say yes but i wont be putting the suggestion out there. marriage is also financial security to me. its not the sacred sacrament that it is supposed to be. it has lost its everything. so sex before marriage is nothing.
2007-02-25 23:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by jai1603 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a marriage ceremony is really a misapplied requirement. Marriage often has nothing to do with the real degree of the relationship which is the critical factor in whether sex should be a part of that relationship.
2007-02-23 22:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a mistake to marry someone without having sex with them first. What if you're not compatible? Also I don't think that sex is the big deal that people try to make it be.
2007-02-18 09:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by Beth T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have lived with a few guys in my time and if you have sex before marriage they will never marry you and plus..as time goes by and the newlywed syndrome goes away and your "glow" passes. So if you wait till after your married the "glow" will last longer.
2007-02-25 09:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by little3nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is something that you have to decide on your own. Are you willing to wait, or should you do it now? And of course it is always best if you don't have sex before marriage, but ultimately it is going to be your decision.
2007-02-18 09:55:13 · answer #8 · answered by Benvenuto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your virginity is the best gift you could give to your husband at your wedding, but giving it before marriage is ok just make sure he's still going to marry you after.
2007-02-26 02:14:18 · answer #9 · answered by Martinne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got to try it before you buy it.there is nothing wrong with it.there there would be a lot less devourers if you know how you are as lovers and how you are when intimate.love is never a bad think so you are not breaking any laws of decency
2007-02-18 09:38:07 · answer #10 · answered by woodsonhannon53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋