how do i tell my parents that i like girls?

Question

i like guys only to a certain extent and only so much. i love girls tho. i knwo my parents will love me not matter what, and they say they support anything i do. i just dont know exactly how to tell them. help please? im confused.

Answer 1

crew cut and doc martins and a pack o ciggies rolled in your shirt sleeve should do it
dont forget the bib and brace overalls

Answer 2

How old are you? I only ask because to be honest, it's normal for girls in their teenage years to feel an attraction to other girls. I'm told boys go through it too (I'm not a boy, so I wouldn't really know for sure.) My point is, think long and hard about how you feel about other girls and if you're at all uncertain, I wouldn't make some big announcement just yet. If you're confused or apprehensive about how you feel, talk to whichever parent you're closest to. Be honest about how you're feeling and everything should work itself out.

Good luck!

Answer 3

First of all, ignore hasse_john. Bible thumpers might try to make you feel bad, but you have to know that being gay is not "immoral" or a "perversion".
And if you still live with your parents, that means you're probably under the age of 18. It's a gray area at this point. A lot of kids have phases where they have an attraction to the same sex, but it doesn't mean they're gay/lesbian. I think you should give it some time and test the waters before you decide one way or the other.
Good luck.

Answer 4

If you are certain that your parents will accept you, then just tell them out loud. But if you think they won't, and you're still depend on them financially or they will be sad because of it, then maybe you should postponed it. Give them hints that being gay is not bad. Wait until they're ready to know about this. Coz you love your parents right?

Unless you don't love your parents, you can tell them anytime :D

Answer 5

You dont. Go get help. Homosexuality is a personality and mental disorder that prevents a human from being attracted to the opposite sex.

God loves you and will help free you. I was a porn addict for many years and just accepted it as a biological thing all men go thru and that it was just part of being a male and all that. Then I found Christ and forced myself to think clean thoughts. Eventually I was able to manage my thought process and "deny the flesh". I am now happier and better off for it.

I still get tempted, but I just pray and have God fill the void. My marriage is better than ever. I also used the confidence that I gained that I can do all things with Gods help and quit smoking and drinking. Even though science is saying that I was born with addictive behavior genes, I can defeat it through perseverence!

God Speed.

Answer 6

Sit them down and tell them seriously. Or if you are worried about how they will take it then drop hints to check. If you are certain that they will be fine with it then just comment that you have a crush on someone or are going on a date with a girl.

Answer 7

Sit down with them and calmly tell them that you like girls. You could say something like "Mom, Dad I've been thinking and I know it may seem like a shock to you but, I like girls." Then if they have questions or you have questions, then you can all discuss them.

Answer 8

TAKE THEM BY THE HAND say everything you want them to know not what they want to hear be honnest because you only have your brothers , sisters and parents to believe . tell them that you like girls too but you arnt meaning to do something bad ... if they act discusted tell them its not your folt , its a feeling .
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Answer 9

First of all, you should be completely honest with them from the start. No lying. Just tell them your feelings.

Answer 10

Say hey mom i like fish and carpet munchies. I think I'm allergic to sausage and peanuts.