I just dont get this. My hubby had an affair. And OMG, does she look like a carpet munchin dyke. SO, not attractive. Granted beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but I have a pic of her and have showed it to my friends and even his and everyone says shes ugly and not worth it. How can a man be so stupid? My husband is constantly telling me how beautiful I am, his friends compliment him on how beautiful his wife is all the time. I'm not being conceited, just confident. I'm a pretty attracive woman and at 32 with 2 kids, still have a nice figure, only 105 lbs. This whore doesnt even look feminine. She looks like white trash, doesnt even have a fem. voice. Talks like shes uneducated. (i've talked to her on the phone) I dont get it. Why would a man risk everything for a lesser woman than what he has?
2007-02-18 00:48:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi Red-Rose!
That says it all! "Red Rose" a fresh cut pretty attracive flower like you and your husband has an affair with a carpet munchin dyke. I think your stupid *** husband fell on his fat head and lost his eye glasses what is he doing... To me it sounds like he has a gorgeous wife and two beautiful children. Red Rose all I can say is I hope things work out for you and the children and tell your *** husband to smell the "rose's" Take care Red Rose and remember you and the kids come first!
P/S To the so called *** husband, take your head out of your *** and look at the 3 beautiful flowers you have you idiot!!!
Bruce
2007-02-18 06:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know why people cheat. I don't think it is all about looks, some men who cheat, it is about the thrill of being with another woman that turn them on, the risk of being caught, and maybe the other woman ( ugly or pretty ) may have alot in common at the moment with the one they are having the affair with. Regardless i have never wanted to cheat, and if i ever found out the one i love had an affair with someone i would not take them back, my a** would be out the door in 2 sec flat. I don't play second fiddle to no one. And i know i deserve the best, and i need someone who respects me as i respect them. Hope things work out for you.
2007-02-18 01:15:38 · answer #2 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, I can understand your thoughts here. I mean, it makes little sense to trade in a town car on a vw bug. But then you have to look at it this way too.
The drivers choice and what he can afford to have and operate is what counts.
Next, how well the car performs. If the town car doesnt seem to meet your needs or expectations or always in need of this or that and the bug isnt, you probably use the bug.
Maybe the bug is not as maintenance intensive or as costly as the town car.
Again, I certainly can understand much of what you are saying, but look at your own post. Is it possible that you might have just too high an opinon of yourself? Is it possible that your opinion of your worth and so forth are only shared by you?
Look, why worry about it. He is cheating. Unless your were telling him no a lot, then none of it matters. If you werent saying no to him and he is cheating, divorce his *** and dont give it too much thought as to his choice in women.
2007-02-18 02:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are so right! I have seen this before. And I have thought about it until I got a headache! The only thing I could come up with is that if they caught they could always say, "Honey look at her! Why would I risk losing you for her!" And any woman would think , Yea why would he and believe him that it was all a lie. I asked my husband and he said that maybe he was slumbing. whatever that would mean.? I just know that if a man has a good wife that is nice looking and he cheats, let-a-lone with a disgusting pig, he doesn't deserve the wife he has. I feel sorry for you . If she was nice looking you could at least make some since of it. Its kind of like stealing, I have always said that if I was ever going to steal something that it would be something really nice because if I got caught at least it would be worth it not like stealing a pair of pants that I could have just paid for. some people think with their other head.
2007-02-18 02:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound like your self worth is in your mirror. This woman is not doing right granted but who is the whore, this woman or your husband? Its not about looks dear its about your husband he may be handsome, fit and easy on the eyes but his insides are blackened and selfish and empty and void. So look deeper and point the blame where it belongs, your dearly beloved cheat of a husband. He doesnt appreciate you at all. You are wrong to be talking to much about looks, looks looks, its about character character character. Its like you want to hold his head and scream look at me how beautiful I am..if that mattered he wouldnt have been with her. Look deeper it will help you in your life.
2007-02-18 00:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your husband doesn't truly feel he deserves you. I don't understand why men or women cheat. My Dad cheated on my Mom with this woman who was UGLY! My Mother is gorgeous andhas been described to look a lot like princess Grace.
Go to marriage counselling. I hope your marriage can be saved.
2007-02-18 00:58:39 · answer #6 · answered by 10 pts for me? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Shes obviously was giving him something you were'nt
Im not saying that as an insult, but as an explination
Thats why people cheat, someone comes along and offers them that one thing missing in thier relationship.
2007-02-18 01:10:46 · answer #7 · answered by mel_leno 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 22:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on your statement, it could be simple as your hubby is not getting what this whore can provide him on bed at home. Ask him what he is getting better from her from than you. The problem is solved.
2007-02-18 01:00:32 · answer #9 · answered by purplemollies 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Most people aren't cheating to get someone 'better', its because they feel something is missing in their lives that this other person offers.
2007-02-18 16:52:54 · answer #10 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋