Why do people marry, when they cannot be true to each other,instead all the faults come after marriage. for me

Answer 1

one: in the beginning they truely do care about that person but theyre bored with the relationship two: they get married cause they think they owe it to that person even if they dont want to three: they are selfish pigs who want there cake and eat it too

Answer 2

Why do people marry? They get married to show an out expression of their commitment. The only marriage that stays or more important is happy , is when each partner worries about the other person more than them selves. But in today's world only 50% of marriages last, so we are a selfish group of people. We need to be understand coming into a marriage that the other person will show their true personality after they are married. Each person needs to be patient and hopefully they share common beliefs or it will be a bumpy ride.

Answer 3

This is not easy .

It takes two to get married. It takes both to break up also.

Many reasons most of which has to do with closeness, no matter how long the relationship, there is nothing like, marriage itself, people live together for years without marriage they get married and in few month they are on each other throat or worst.

Answer 4

If the faults are not found out until after marriage, they're either ignoring them before marriage or haven't been together long enough! Trust me, I know plenty of my lovers flaws. We've lived together for 2 years. I'm still going to marry him :)

Answer 5

Every person is different, I've been happily married for 10yrs. How long did you date before you married? If it was not for very long then you have your answer to why things went wrong. You need to experience enough time with someone to get to know them, the real 'them'. Only time can do that. If you did date for a long time and he just 'turned' different after the wedding then he might have a mental problem or just be a very imature guy. Get out if not your not happy. Good luck

Answer 6

its true once you live together then only you will know the actual reality. being like lovers is different from living as husband and wife. to some extent taking the partner for granted is the mistake most of the couples do. you should always remember the things you got attracted to your spouse in the first place. misunderstandings, fights are common in any marriage.you should overcome those and look at the brighter side.

Answer 7

People marry because they find no harm in committing themselves to their partners.

Amy be it didn't work out for you. That is because thered's something lacking from both the sides. Marraige is like a duet song. Both of yo ugotta know when to pitch your tune and how to pitch. Most important of all how to balance your pitch when the other goes wrong. A small deflection can cause trouble.

:-)

Answer 8

this is wrong if u married to anybody than u hav to expect him/her fully

see friend every person hav gud things and bad things in them that don't mean that they cannot married

i think u didn't gave time to your better half to know u and u didn't want to know your better half.

what faults u r talking u want to say u r a pure person without any faults this a big studied

See in marriage u hav to compromise and some time u hav to ignore some points also

n if this also not help u than plz go to so counsellor 4 help

Answer 9

Wndy, people get married becz they fall in love or they need soemone to be in their life, marriage is not a joke, its a commitment , but these days when people have access to internet, it becomes really hard to stay away from getting attracted to things around you as i always believe... beauty always attracts even when you are married.. its upto you how u deal with it!!

Answer 10

1)mostly the virgin are eager to get marry , thus after some time they lie each other.
2)husband & wife both need a change they get bored seeing each others face for along time , thats the reason they dont makeup after marrage