Just wondering.
2007-02-18 00:33:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I agree, I just love this question. I think you need to be yourself and love yourself for who and what you are. The answers to the other question you asked become unimportant because of that.
Good luck to you.
2007-02-18 01:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Both! It all just depends on what it is your hated for, right. Like, if I was hated for "Loving My Jesus!!" Than, I'd be glad, I was making the devil mad enough that people were hating me, I'd rather they wanted what I had, but you cant have everything, you can just simply pray for them , for God to change their hearts about you, you know. And loved for what I'm not, is okay too. Let's see here, for example if I didn't become a "Court Stenographer" as I had planned, but my "Folks" still loved me "Unconditionally" because they just backed me on whatever I did, or didn't do, then that's "Really Good", than their saying thier allowing me to spread my wings and soar like an eagle, and love me for continueing to try, no matter what it is I do. So, I think both are just as good, depending on the circumstances, you know. Smile!!!
2007-02-18 00:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by Hmg♥Brd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to be hated for who/what you are. There will always be people who disagree with you for how you live your life and the choices that you make. But remember, that there is also always someone out there somewhere who feels the same way you do. Leave the negative people in your past and seek out the positive!
2007-02-18 00:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by OhKatie! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be hated for who you are is better in my opinion because I would much rather be hated for who I am than the other way around because I would not want to risk my own happiness or change or hide who I am for the benefit of someone else just to make them comfortable.
I no longer live for others.-Its easier said than done
2007-02-18 08:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by 17-4serendipity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi !!!
I believe that hate is never a positive thing to follow, or to per sue. There for I would NOT liked to be hated for what I am!!!
That's why I definitely think that is better TO BE LOVE for what one IS NOT !!!!
With this comes appreciation, and teaches others, to learn to be their own selves, rather that a want to be!!!
GOD BLESS YOU & HAPPY LIFE
A.Z.
2007-02-18 00:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whoa...you should get extra Yahoo Points for that one...lol.
Hmm..I'd say what ever made you happier. If you were ok with the pretending so long as you were loved...or if you were happy that you were true to yourself enough you didn't care what others thought. It all depends...
2007-02-18 00:36:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I'd rather be hated for what I am, than being loved for living a lie.
2007-02-18 04:56:55 · answer #7 · answered by curiouscat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We hate some persons because we do not know them; and we will not know them because we hate them.
Charles Caleb Colton (1780 - 1832)
2007-02-18 01:07:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I choose to be hated for what you are.
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2007-02-18 02:29:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being hated for who you are. I would rather be myself and be ridiculed than have people like me because I'm not myself.
2007-02-18 01:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by Busta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋