i am 19 , & very very shy person. till today i have interacted 15-20 times with about 4-5 girls .when ever i talk with them there feedback is, avoid this guy ,this is because like other guys i dont touch them . even i like to do what others do ,but dont know why i feel its wrong .will there be any girl who will like me?
2007-02-18 00:12:45 · 12 answers · asked by shaileshsmartguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let me get this straight: girls don't talk to you because you don't touch them????
I would not like it if a guy I just met tried to touch me. You don't start off friendships by touching ppl...at least not normal friendships. Its not wrong to hold a girl's hand or put ur arm around her shoulder, bt thts only for girls who are already good friends with you & tht too if the girl doesn't mind.
It seems to me that you're trying to talk to the wrong kind of girls. Leave such ppl alone....I'm sure there are plenty of intelligent girls who you could be friends with....such girls appreciate decent guys like you. They also look for confidence & understanding. So work on improving ur confidence & remember one thing....friendships cannot be forced. You will click with some ppl, you won't with others. So don't give up even if things don't work out initially. And ur only 19....I know it seems like friends are everything right now, bt the world's a lot bigger than that....don't lose focus on ur studies. All the best.
2007-02-18 00:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by Peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The basic fact you have to accept is that each individual is different be it a girl or a boy.Of course gender comes into play only in a minor way.Its all in YOUR mind.If you want to talk well to girls you will find a way out by observing other so called successful talkers,Idont think not every girl likes being touched.There is no problem if you dont touch,but make sure that you dont touch them in the wrong way.
2007-02-18 00:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by nidhin tommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a very shy person to but i try not to be to shy but that hardly ever works when ever i get arroud people i dont know im quiet an don't usally talk unless they ask me somthing. i know what you mean when you said i like to do what others do but dont know why i feel its wrong. i get to feeling that way some times to. but im sure there will be some girl out there that will like talking to you, you just got to find the right one.
2007-02-18 01:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by Vanessa Anne Hudgens 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel man I'm shy to but i learned if she don't like you then don;t mess with her you should not have to change for her when you meet the right person you will know if she talks back to you a lot then she likes that your shy so go with the flow when you feel that she is interested in you
2007-02-18 00:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by stevenbarnes2560 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes girls are of different breeds,different characters
different like and dislike,if you are shy there are shy girl too
your only 19 theres plenty time and plenty girls in this world
but try to be more active get out of the closet
try to be friend with opposite sextry to attend some social gathering or attend a drama goup or choire group or any group
that promote unity and friendship
goodluck
2007-02-18 00:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not. Maybe you don't know, other person see you shy,but other person don't know there is something special in yourself. You have trust to yourself. You must facing all problem bravely. Show something that hidden which one who have never know about yourself and or talent which hidden for example. You must have self confidence. Don't think about what people talking about you. Just show it. And maybe you have change your appearance. And face all your problem with chilled head. If you get problem make calm your mind and think all quietly and clear brain. Good luck.
2007-02-18 00:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by Nataline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that you're shy because girls can relate to shyness. If you think they don't relate to you because you don't physically touch them, you are on the wrong track. It's not a physical problem the inhibits a connection.
2007-02-18 00:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy guys? well theyre ok...i mean, they're better than those aggresive guys......
but pls dont be too shy,..gather up ur courage as u tlk to a girl.....but dont be aggresive
girls will love u if u are a good guy, a guy who has good personality and knows how to deal well with others....
2007-02-18 00:18:31 · answer #8 · answered by lostinhislostlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be a little bit sure of yourself, and your shyness will fade away, anycase, if a girl likes you, it doesn't matter if you are shy or not, she will fall in love with you the same.
2007-02-18 00:22:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i realy like shy guys u are better than the others u are good to me i dont know why girls dont like u but dont care u are good ,,,girls will run after u soon cause u have never touched or kissed anygirl u didnt lov
2007-02-18 00:23:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋