Has he given you any other reason to doubt him? Does he disappear for hours with no explanation? Does he get calls and after answering them does he go to another room and close the door? Unless you have more than this I'd accept his explanation and move on. You can tell him it makes you uncomfortable however there is a matter of trust here or else you wouldn't have checked his messages anyway. Best thing you can do is talk with him about this. In most marriages the best way to set your mind at ease about anything is to simply talk to each other.
2007-02-18 00:56:56
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answered by Anonymous
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No. Dont. Men lie too much. He has been fooling around for a while. Get rid of him now while you can do it without too much trouble or have some male friend start calling your house looking for you and see what that starts. And when your husband says "What is going on here" you tell him "NOTHING" we are just flirting. Then see what a fool he is because he will show his foolishness. Remember husbands and boyfriends seem to think they can do whatever they please in no matter what relationship
marrige or dating. See how fast your so called husband accuses
you of cheating. Remember he is only flirting......ya,...sure.
2007-02-18 07:55:22
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answered by ebby hearson 1
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Yes believe him they are flirting! But we both know this is not right when you are married because this is how it starts out, then next thing you know they will be sleeping together. Take it from a man, you better keep your eye on this situation. Take notice of this also, if now he keeps track of his handphone and doesn't leave it behind anymore or won't let you check his messages or somehow all of them seem to be deleted whenever you check then you should know he is cheating. But why did you take time to check his phone anyway? Are there trust issues? Was he mad because you checked his phone? If he doesn't mind you checking at anytime then you are safe.
2007-02-18 08:03:15
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answered by Willie Survive 4
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It's hard to say for sure, too little information provided. You confronted him too soon! What you should do, is to get his handphone and send her an sms pretending to be him, something like " I want to meet so we can have some time for ourselves" or something like that. And see what she replies! From her reply you will know for sure what is going on. If still in doubt, send another sms pretending to be your husband, and so on.
2007-02-18 07:56:45
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answered by OC 7
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hell no.........are you kidding me....if the sms said miss you already... there is definately something going on....i mean flirting alone is not acceptable but im 99% positive that these two are more than flirting...you need a serious talk with your husband or talk to him like you understand and that you already know what is going on between the two and then maybe he would confess....and if and when he does....you should know how to take it from there....
2007-02-18 07:51:54
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answered by Anonymous
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I tell you what- Check message /s again and if you can't get into message because he has changed code pass or all erased. (All times.
Then question should I believe him.
Or better yet Tex back to that person (Making like you or him. and sexy Tex mess.) See what comes back! Keep playing along.
The seed has been planted in your head so now it's up to you what to do next.
Be on your guard. Who knows their husband better than himself?
You do or at lest should.
If so UN sure call Cheaters (That TV show) They will investigate him for free. Private Investigators - www.cheaters.com
Good Luck
2007-02-18 08:11:56
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answered by Bluelady... 7
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No. Why would he keep the messages on his phone if they don't mean anything? Why has she got his cell number? They are, at the very least, being disrespectful both to you and your marriage. You need to give him an ultimatum, he stops any contact with this woman and gets a new job, or he finds another wife.
2007-02-18 07:49:53
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answered by Anonymous
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Poor you, that is about the same as my former brother in law who was found with condoms in his luggage after working in Africa. He told his wife it was routine everyone got them at the airport upon arrival. This man is a dog and I would leave my own message on his cell, your luggage is outside and advise him to seek a lawyer. This guy is insecure and needs help but dont stay while he gets it, he wont change.
2007-02-18 09:02:15
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answered by Anonymous
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Not! You don't refer to a co-worker as Honey. Flirting is fluttering of eyes, a lope-sided smile, or even a bantering of words back and forth...calls on a cell or text messages are for cheaters not flirters
2007-02-18 07:56:37
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answered by sassywv 4
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That sounds way too personal of a comment coming from just a colleague. I would say go with your gut, and perhaps give that colleague a call and ask her why she is calling your husband.
It takes two to tango, so don't blame her, especially since you have no idea what he is telling her. If he is involved with her, then, he is the one lying to the both of you. And, she really is the innocent victim...you too.
2007-02-18 07:51:08
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answered by Anonymous
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