ITS NOT FUNNY
2007-02-17 23:13:47 · 9 answers · asked by NIKS 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
nothing lasts forever. so if u dare to love someone really deep, that means u already learn to let go too. and yes, it's not funny at all.
2007-02-17 23:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by mystic_fish_white 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not funny is it? The good part is you will survive, even if it does not seem possible at times.
This is a very good time to reflect on what exactly it is that the word love means to you.
A long time ago I thought that love was something that you reserved for some special set of people that you had judged worthy of it.
After a while I got to thinking about what Jesus had said about turning the other cheek and loving our neighbor I put the two together and realized that he had made no exceptions in these statements. It became obvious to me that he intended that we exclude no one from the love that we are supposed to be giving. I started thinking about my idea of love and suddenly realized that I had not been loving anyone at all. I had simply been judging everyone and every thing.
Judging someone worthy of love is not love, it is only judgment. I actually started to cry when I realized this. I saw just how much of my life I had wasted being judgmental, thinking of myself as a Christian, when I was actually doing just the opposite of what Jesus had asked us to do.
I thought about the verse judge not lest ye be judged, and I understood it for the first time.
I realized that I have a lot of catching up to do. So many opportunities were wasted. I now try to apply the love that I have for the world in a universal way like Jesus asks us to do.
If I start to feel afraid and think that I see someone that I should not love because of something I have thought or heard I try to catch my mistake as soon as possible. I tell myself that I have forgot the truth and have fallen for the same old trick that had cost me so many opportunities to be loving in the past. The horror of this realization is often all that is necessary to bring me back to my senses and make me drop the judgmental nonsense I was thinking.
I still have a lot to learn about love, but at least I’m making progress.
Love and blessings
Your brother
don
2007-02-17 23:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost in the same way as with him. I believe that everybody on the planet is completely lonely that's why we should be able to live alone
Of course I will lack some things as sex and humour but it will not change my life
2007-02-17 23:34:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very painful to loose someone dear and so dear to you... but life itself is very precious once you can understand the value of yourself and your human character....
... It is even more precious when you can make other people happy so they can fee what you have experienced at one stage in your life... this is when transformation gets into life and you truly appreciate the gift of life!
2007-02-17 23:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by Cheers For All 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who do u live for? Her or him? Human being lives for himself. Try to forget, to forgive. Try brand-new life and find a new one.
2007-02-17 23:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by jenkyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol
can't help it but to laugh.
I guess i am just going to it all by myself.
lol
2007-02-17 23:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by oscar c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By becoming less emotionally and otherwise dependant? :-)))
2007-02-18 02:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by drakke1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are not made for each other exclusively
2007-02-17 23:22:16 · answer #8 · answered by hari prasad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will die
2007-02-17 23:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by jeya s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋