Is there a possible that dispite what societys standards, and my personal beliefe that I might be gay? HELP?!?
im afraid I might be a lesbian. I have had sex with guys before but i never orgasm or fel right. when im with guys i feel uncomfertable being close to them, id rather play video games or talk about politics im not interested in thier opinions as much. I dated girls and I was more happy and comfertable kissing them and being close and talking about thier interests. Im scared because I dont know how to tell my parents, and Im afraid of how my friends would react. I cant help but look at girls i find my self gazing at a girls awsome butt sometimes! Sometimes I imagine that when Im older I have a beautiful girlfriend who co-owns an apartment with me and we sit and drink coffee together every morning and just talk about everything, like life in general. Why do I wish I will have this one day? lol Please help because Im having a Panic Attack thinking about it. Am I lesbian?
2007-02-17 23:08:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes you are.
2007-02-17 23:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa. Slow down. Don't be so afraid. We are what God made us to be. If you are a lesbian then you need to find people to support you and help you grow into your true self. There are support groups that can help you with your parents too. Look for the local PFLAG (Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays)chapter in your community. They can give you answers and advice. Being lesbian is like having brown eyes: it is natural, beautiful and a gift. I am a lesbian girl and I am very happy. Hope you will be too.
2007-02-17 23:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 08:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to understand only you know what your feeling inside. I had the same problem. My mom & dad are great people but they werent happy when they found out. My mom had seen me around an old bf and it was just like we were friends nothing more but now she see me with my gf and tell me she has never seen me happyer. The main point is follow your heart don't be scard because you may miss that wonderful girl. Your family and friends will come around in time just slowly bring the girl around. I am betting they love you and want to see you happy!
2007-02-21 12:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by Evil Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong with being a lesbian. Date a few women, and see how you feel. If you are happier with a woman than be happy with a woman. In the end it's all about your happiness.
2007-02-18 09:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by Naru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you might be a lesbian.
2007-02-17 23:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by MaryCheneysAccessory 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it take your time and find yourself. maybe you just feel closer to girls, in any case be happy.
2007-02-17 23:45:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jimmy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could be but the olny way to tell is to try being with a woman. you know then if it's for you or not.....
2007-02-18 01:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are not born to be lesbians. You need a friend, someone who can relate. God made Adam and Eve...not Adam and Steve.
2007-02-17 23:13:15 · answer #9 · answered by wizzygirl10 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
i know how you feel i went throw the same thing please email me if you want a friend to talk to
take care
2007-02-18 13:37:07 · answer #10 · answered by laura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋