If a guy tells you he wants to wait until marriage before having sex.
2007-02-17 23:06:40 · 43 answers · asked by bigpumpdaddy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
GOOD Grief charlie brown!
2007-02-25 14:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a wonderful thing that would be! Oh how I wish life was like that again. Our world would be in such better shape than it is. People have gotten where they believe having sex outside of marriage is the NORMAL thing to do. As a matter of fact, that is exactly what it has become, I am so ashamed to say.
I would be so delighted and happy if everyone would follow the standards of sex after marriage and that was the NORMAL instead of the other way around.
I hate that other countries see us Americans as evil because of our behaviors noted on our television screens and in the movies and the exchanging sex partners freely, just by breaking up and moving on to the next person. The filthy language that easily flows from our mouths from everywhere.
I, too, am ashamed of my own behavior and wish I could take back my own terrible mistakes. I hope that our world will make a turn around somehow for the better and that sex after marriage will be regarded as the right thing to do.
Sorry this rambled on so long.
2007-02-21 17:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, sex is just a desired by human being, its a feeling most likely is the way we approach other sex, basically some ppl thinking relationship without sex is better than nothing,so sex makes their relationship sparks up, but how long does it last? ppl might change when they get bored, i rather play hard to get, if he really sincere enough about having a relationship, sex will not be the first issue, you hearts, feeling , sincerity, honesty also did play part. Therefore if i found such a guy who told me that relationship is not only about sex, but more.... i will be happy if he's telling me openly that he will only touch his women till the day he say "I DO" i cant imagine how's the feeling goes rite there... And those guy who prefer having sex after marriage is a very good guy who don't like to take advantage of women like us!!! So if all the guys out there are like that, i definitely won't regret being a women!!! hahaha.. so i can treasure my very precious to my future husband!!!
Dun think to much!!! Be happy! Go lucky! that type of guy are very rare!!! Treasure one if you find one!!!
2007-02-24 20:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by naniebootilicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because this is what the Christian lifestyle teaches us that we are to remain pure and stay pure until we find the one that we want to be with. When we find the right one and if we stay pure and not have sex with anybody before marriage, then we are doing what we should, and your girlfriend ought to appreciate you for this. There are not many guys out there that would ever say this to their girlfriends. It is good to know that you are doing what the Lord has told us that we should do as his child. God Bless your heavenly heart.
2007-02-24 12:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have ya'll been dating for a week? Have you been dating for a long time? I think it's good that he would want to wait but are you a virgin? Is he a virgin or he just wants to abstain now? I am a Christian,but I'm having a hard time believing you are willing and he isn't. If he is a Christian, then he is awesome for not having premarital sex.
2007-02-25 20:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. If he's a religious person, a person with very strong morals then it's not weird. If he's none of the above, I'd say he's gay, and avoiding sex with a woman, and lying to himself.
2007-02-22 04:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!! I think it would be great! A man who actually cares about his sexuality, his future wife, and thinks that sex is more then just recreation!
I would be impressed and if I was the woman he planned to marry, I would feel special.
2007-02-17 23:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by Misty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I do not think is weird. At least you do not have to worry about catching some disease.. A guy told me that I would just past out. It also shows you that he will be faithfull.
2007-02-23 02:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think far too many people are only interested in sex. It's unusual but not weird.
2007-02-17 23:16:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not weird at all...I hope my son does that...there's enough unwanted oopses running around. You should want to wait too young lady{:(. Does your father know? If you was my daughter...it'd be chastity belt time!!! Tsk Tsk
2007-02-25 11:23:48 · answer #10 · answered by maydynzwarrior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are there actually men like that. Well, I believe that you've got to check under the hood before buying the car.
2007-02-25 10:17:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋