is it normal if it takes a long time for a girl to orgasm?

Question

and what does it mean if the girl doesnt orgasm at all throughout sex?

Answer 1

it may be she need longer to achieve orgasm as some women can take up to an hour or more on clitoral stimulation alone so be patient and dont try to rush it

Answer 2

It's perfectly normal for a girl not to orgasm during sex. Some women can't have vaginal orgasms, either - they rely on clitoral orgasms (although this can be changed with training and dedication ;) ). Some women find it difficult or impossible to orgasm without a vibrator.

Female orgasms happen naturally at a slower rate than male orgasms - that's why women like foreplay so much, it gives them time to build their orgasm. Try lots of foreplay. Gently and positively encourage your partner to try different things on you which might feel nice (you never know what might do the trick). Try masturbating, or at least exploring your own body, if you don't like that idea. Know where your clitoris is (you need to know this).

Are you nervous, stressed or anxious about sex? This can be an inhibitor as well. It's so important to love each other during sex, or have heaps of fun (or ideally, both).

Lastly, I totally reccomend you visit http://www.the-clitoris.com - it's an awesome site for embracing female sexuality (and feisty new ideas!)

Answer 3

It's no less normal for a woman to take a long time to orgasm than it is for her to orgasm relatively quickly. If, however, she "doesn't orgasm at all throughout sex" (and it's surprising how many women don't) then perhaps the gentleman needs to review his technique. Incidentally, it has nothing to do with the length or girth of the penis, as some men apparently seem to think.

Best wishes, J

Answer 4

Women don't masturbate as much as men, so orgasms are unfamiliar to them and they often don't know how to reach climax. Some women even think they have to pee when they are about to 'come' and out of fear they hold back. The best way for a woman to learn how to have an orgasm is to sit on the toilet or stand in the shower and masturbate. That way if they do pee they won't make a mess, but if they don't pee but rather have an orgasm, which is more likely, they will be really happy.

Answer 5

Yes it's normal. Alot of women do not actually orgasm through penetrative sex. Some women just orgasm through having their clitoris rubbed. Maybe u should ask your girl to show u what she likes - u will enjoy watching, u will become closer sexually as u thinking of her & then u will both be on your way to Heaven (so to speak lol).

Good luck & Enjoy!!! x

Answer 6

yes, most of the girls take long to orgasm, and some may not orgasm at all..but, one can understand whether she is satisfied or not...the male has to go for a lot of fore play. He must understand the girl and her sexual requirements..besides he has to hold himself until the partner reaches to the peak..that might help the girl to orgasm.. having control and patient oral work is the key to success..

Answer 7

Hey dude! Whilst a woman does not have to have an orgasm everytime she has intercourse, foreplay has a great deal to do with setting her on the right path to having one. Don't give up, enjoy the experience which you need to make sure she is also doing and it will happen. If either one of you gets hooked on a climaxing you will not be relaxed enough to have one. Good luck.

Answer 8

Totally normal.

If a girl doesn't orgasm at all it either means you're rubbish in bed, she wasn't really in the mood or she gave up on trying to have an orgasm years ago.

Answer 9

well there is such thing as anorgasmia, but it can be cured, u have to talk with your girl, and it is good to know that some woman do not reach orgams thru penile vaginal intercourse, they need either stimulation with tongue on their clitoris or with fingers, u can stimulate woman while having penile-vainal intercourse and putting ur finger or two on her vagina, also u can cares her breasts, for woman to reach orgasm it takes from few minutes to even hour, it all depends from her sex life, sex experience and pchyhical state, for example some woman can not come at first time as they been told that sex is evil etc. u have to work slow with your grilfriend, for more answers to your questions i advice you to read this website

http://www.indiana.edu/~kisiss/pastqa.html

if you have more questions u can either ask me by mail, Im or contact sex clinic and consult doctor together with your girlfriend,

please remember it is not a problem to have problem with reaching orgams but it is problem if you are not trying to help your girlfriend to reach it. so any counsueling if needed should be taken

hope it helps :)

Answer 10

Girls are not like men they do not necessary orgasm each time....

And yes it can take a long time sometimes.........it will be quicker if you have not had sex for a while