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I have always like dguys all throughout my life. I have developed those normal crushes on girls that girls will get, and I have kissed like 5 girls but just playing around. Im about to turn 17 years old and I know girls are curious about sexuality at this age. Im a little bit metally ahead of my age group I have the mental compasity of an adult tho, im well educated about the human mind. Recntly I cant really take interest in guys, they come across to me like theyre trouble some and arent good at commitment. I have sex with guys but some times, not intending to, ill imagine a guy im having sex with is a girl. I dont mean to. I find myself aroused by girls often and i dont really realize it right aways. I dont know how to explain this. Its wierd. Like I get nervous and sweaty around a pretty girl. I cant hold still and I make eye contact the entire time we talk. Im frustrated and this thought keeps me awake at night. What do I do?!?! Im so confused. Its giving me panic attacks! HELP!!!

2007-02-17 21:11:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

8 answers

Stop trying to categorise yourself and just be who you are. You've years yet to discover "who you are".

2007-02-17 21:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I think you're Bi. Don't panic, your life and mind changes as you go through puberty, which is why it's such a confusing time. pretty much everyone gets a bit confused what's happening in puberty, it's really normal.

And your sexuality is just developing. Maybe it will be for you, maybe not. But most likely, I think you are bi for now, and I'd say it's a good place to be. Just go along with it, be yourself, and don't drag yourself down!! Good luck!

2007-02-17 21:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by Xavier 2 · 0 0

First of all, always remember to BREATHE...BREATHE... :) Ultimately only you can decide how to label yourself. Despite our cultures attempt to state otherwise, sexuality is not a dichotomy of Queer and straight. Rather it is a continuum that rages between those two extremes. You're still young and as you said yourself in a very experimental stage of your life. It may be a bit early to figure out where exactly you fit in this range. I would say do what feels right and comfortable for you right now. :) Good luck to you! :)

2007-02-17 21:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by SDTerp 5 · 0 0

If you must categorize yourself, you're likely bi-curious at this stage, having had sex with guys, but being attracted to women. Once you have sex with a women, you'll be bisexual.

At the point when you are not physically attracted to guys and have no interest in them sexually at all, then, unfortunately for us guys (snicker), you'll be a lesbian.

2007-02-17 21:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jack Schitt 3 · 0 0

You sound bi or bi-curious.
many girls go through this stage at some point in there life.
some grow out of it, some dont, i didnt.
i am bisexual
dont stress, panic or lose sleep over it.
its perfectly natural

2007-02-17 21:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by LostMyMind 3 · 2 0

dont worry so much about categorizing yourself... if you prefer girls.. more power to ya... doesnt have to mean that youre lesbian.

2007-02-17 21:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by lolomgwtf 3 · 1 0

aha you suck p u s s y,makes you gay.no suck pus sy no gay

2007-02-17 21:29:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

no...if you are asking, no

2007-02-17 21:17:36 · answer #8 · answered by Khandee K 3 · 0 1

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