Me and my Boyfriend thinks i'm pregnate its been 4 weeks since we had sex and i'm not feeling to good he wants me to have an abortion but i dont want one because i dont believe in in so what should i do?
2007-02-17 20:50:04 · 19 answers · asked by Jahmira J 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
dont do that
if he really loves u then he will dream to have kids from u
but i think if he didnt then he was playing with u for sex only not for love
u have to keep this child i advice u never to make abortion because u will cry hard after that
i hope u never do it
2007-02-17 21:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Their is several things YOU have to decide. Some people are pro life and others are pro choice. I am married and when I got pregnant we were both very happy. Dont you want that one day? If you have a baby this guy will not stay with you. NO guy wants a baby with a random girl especially while young. Your friends will be off having fun and living life you will be changing diapers all alone and plus they cost a lot of $$$! You will always be the girl with the baby and it will be hard to find a good guy later no man wants someone else's baby they want their own. Trust me that guy will not stay with you. You are young and naive right now but use your brain not your heart. Wait until your married and older. Until then DONT have sex when ur kid and if you have to then get on the pill. And at your age I am sure us taxpayers would just have to pay for you all.
2007-02-17 21:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by Noor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aborting a baby is bad at any age, but it is especially dangerous for teenagers. For information on the risks, take a look at these links:
http://www.teenbreaks.com/abortion/complicationsgirls.cfm
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
Women have died from so-called "safe" abortions:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm
If you do not want an abortion, just don't have one! It sounds like you already know abortion is wrong, and you will never forgive yourself if you allow someone to kill your baby. If your boyfriend really cared about you, he would not ask you to kill his child and put your life and health at risk. Don't allow him to manipulate you. You do not need to feel sorry for him. He knew that when he made the choice to have sex with you, a baby might result. You can't control his attitude, but you CAN control your actions. Don't let anyone hurt you or your baby.
If you need help, go to a crisis pregnancy center. All of their services are free and confidential. They can give you a free pregnancy test and talk to you about all your concerns. They can help you get free maternity and baby supplies, financial, medical, and housing assistance, and anything else you might need. You can find one in your area by calling 1-800-395-HELP or visiting http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp
If you are a teenager, there is a special support site for pregnant teens here:
http://standupgirl.com/site/index.php
and here's more information you need to see:
Photos and Video of Abortions, Including 1st Trimester Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html
Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
Abortion Stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html
http://www.teenbreaks.com/abortion/girlswhoaborted.cfm
Your baby is depending on you for protection. Be strong for her. You can do the right thing.
2007-02-18 13:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by Just the Facts 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel in your heart that you don't want an abortion then by any means don't. Although some people take this lightly an abortion is ending the life of a little that has nothing else but you. If you get an abortion it will probably haunt you for the rest of your life or even affect you in the future. Please think about and talk to somebody that cares about you...
2007-02-17 21:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maximum fetuses are incredibly youthful whilst they are aborted, and it is incredibly darn undesirable for them. Abortion is undesirable at any age. Frankly it could leave scaring that forestalls you from having babies lower back (no longer continually, yet each and every so often). extra importantly, the vast majority of girls human beings who've an abortion finally be apologetic approximately it deeply. it would be lots extra advantageous to have the toddler and place it for adoption so as that a loving couple can advance the youngster. In in the present day's international, maximum adoptions are "open", so she would be in a position to nonetheless have touch with the youngster.
2016-09-29 06:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by barile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAKE SURE YOU ARE PREGNANT FIRST!
But I hope that you will consider adoption over abortion, it can be very tough physically, emotionally and mentally...
If you consider adoption then you can see pictures of the child as they grow up, something you can't do when having an abortion. Don't let your bf talk you into anything!
Home study approved and hoping to adopt a child of any race, age or gender :-)
http://ourjourneytoadoption.blogspot.com/
2007-02-18 14:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abortion is bad at any age- first of all take a pregnancy test- abortion does not only kill the baby, it is very bad for your body, and emotional risks that can happen last sometimes a lifetime. Consider adoption. If you do not believe in it, do not do it-
2007-02-18 02:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by AdoreHim 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you have a abortion itll be something you are going to live with for the rest of your life. I dont believe in abortions because its human life and its just wrong. your boyfriend should be a man and step up to the plate. I personally wouldnt have one, i have 2 kids and im glad i never had one. if you dont want one tell him he should of thought about that before he had intercourse with you. and abortions shouldnt be used for birth control. anyways good luck.
2007-02-17 20:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by oneandonlyness 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you don't believe in abortion. It's murder at any stage of pregnancy. Don't listen to your boyfriend. If he really loves you, he'll respect your decision. If you need help, find a Christian pregancy shelter and they will pour love and support on you.
2007-02-17 21:33:22 · answer #9 · answered by H M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt get an abortion..maybe next time you wont have unprotected sex..and if he isnt man enough to take care of a baby he juss isnt a man..killing an innocent child because of your mistake..if you do get an abortion..i hope you cant sleep at night knowing you killed an inocent child because of your stupidity..at least give the baby up for adoption..at least it gets a chance at life..
2007-02-17 21:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by India™ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋