i am 16 weeks pregnant and have had sex once since i found out. i am not only terrified of sex in regards to hurting the baby(even though everyone says its perfectly fine) but i have absolutely NO SEX DRIVE at all in fact i cringe at the thought right now. has anyone else had a similar experience?
2007-02-17 19:26:30 · 5 answers · asked by Jessica M 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I am 14 weeks along and I have not had sex at all either. I just don't feel like it. This is common in early pregnancy.
But don't worry because it is said that during your 2nd trimester chances are that you will get a higher than normal sex drive... usually because your hormones are going back to normal.
2007-02-18 00:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by hollilynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sex drive is common, and while it is ok, many people have no desire to have sex. Go with what feels good. I found tht in the first three month sex was better than ever, but every one is different! Keep your partner happy. That is the key. Oral sex works. Just find what works for you, and rmember that sex until contractions is still safe!
2007-02-18 03:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by anamaradancer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not alone whatsoever!!! I had one good time shortly after I found out and then I got so sick and the rest of the time I didn't want to do anything. I had the baby on my mind constantly. After I got over that I couldn't find a comfortable way of doing it. Now I am on bedrest and want it but can't have it. It will be worth the wait though i'm sure.
2007-02-18 03:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by Brie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stopped having sex when i was 5 months pregnant until 2 months after i had my son. I think it is pretty normal to not want to have sex while your pregnant. Your fine but it won't hurt anything if you do have sex.
2007-02-18 04:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 33 wks and alot of times I dont have the drive to have sex so I would say I totally feel you. I just dont feel "sexy"
2007-02-18 03:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by Oops! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋