2007-02-17 19:10:49 · 13 answers · asked by married girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get naked, in front of him.
2007-02-17 19:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your situation very well, but this is not uncommon in marriages. We often become to complacent or don't try at all.
Here are some things you could try...
1. flirting innocently/accidental without saying anything. This may include letting him see down your top, wearing stockings and letting the hem of your skirt/dress show your garter belt.
2. When sitting together, put you head on his chest and stroke him wherever you feel comfortable touching him.
3. wearing silky things around the house. Not outrageous, just really pretty.
4. Massages. Look at some book at amazon.com for more info.
2007-02-18 05:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let people tell you to try all of these different things! If your husband was in love with you he wouldn't be able to keep his hands off you.The only way a man will not be sexually attracted to his wife if he truly loves her is if the wife makes him feel that he is inadequate.If you know in your heart that you're doing all that you can to let him know that he turns you on and he still isn't interested then it's just not going to happen.
2007-02-18 12:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by mikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is he? I am 45 and several years ago my sex drive dropped off to near zero. After some years I had a talk with my doctor and about what this ED thing was all about. He had me get a blood test for checking my testosterone levels, which have turned out to be half what they should be. Testosterone is the sex hormone and low levels can cause sex drive to drop off.
When I was younger I was quite happy with my drive and my love seemed to too, So have him talk to his doctor because since then I have found out that low T has some other concerns, with blood sugar level and cholesterol and other things that are important to men's health.
2007-02-18 03:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't pick your nose (at least in company)
Wash with soap
Stand naked alone infront of a full mirror for 1 min every morning.
Rate your value with a definite number from 1 to 10 every evening.
Now figure out what lowers that number
Find the other women and if you can't beat them join them
2007-02-18 03:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by mpento 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show int rest in it yourself. If you act like you love having sex with him and you overtly let it show that will help. Sometimes guys, like myself, are thick when it comes to taking hints. I personally don't like trying to decode what she wants or needs. Plus we're very visually stimulated so wearing something sexy and fun helps to shake things up as well. Don't let it get you down, sometimes people just get into a funk and need to be woken up a bit with something new. Good luck!
2007-02-18 04:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by Eric 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit him in a chair and give him a lap dance that he will never forget.
2007-02-18 03:38:08 · answer #7 · answered by rjsr40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's never suggested _anything_ I'd guess his low drive is about him, not about you.
I make plenty of suggestions to my wife, which she ignores.
2007-02-19 00:55:20 · answer #8 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spice it up a little dress sexy teas him a little.have some for play break the routine
2007-02-18 04:56:05 · answer #9 · answered by Leo M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
spice things up a bit, take the initiate and try different things
2007-02-18 03:32:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
workout and buy some sexy lingerie(after the working out has taken effect)
2007-02-18 03:37:14 · answer #11 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋