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i am 6 months pregnant and just broke up with my bf tonight. it was very bad. i had been stayng at his parents house and he lost his temper (choked, slapped, shoved me) im really sick right now and started puking when he choked me. his parents heard a ruckus and came to see. i was crying and blurted out that he choked me.

i feel terrrible. i feel like i betrayed him by saying anything. hes so mad he wont talk to me. his parents drove me into the ccity and told me never to call or bother and that i just make him mad. im heartbroken. such bad anxiety. somebdy plese help me.

2007-02-17 19:04:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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Oh, honey, I feel so bad. I think you should try and work things out with him. Especially if he's the father of your child. You don't want that baby growing up without a daddy. Work things out, make up with him. You didn't betray him by saying anything. Just call him, don't listen to the parents. I hope you feel better. I mean, even though he's been a total jerk to you, see if you can work anything out. If you can't, I would suggest finding another daddy for that baby of yours! *Wipes away a tear at how sad this is*

2007-02-18 08:46:17 · answer #1 · answered by Dee 6 · 0 3

Why would you feel bad about getting away from someone that abuses you? That's the worst thing a person can do to you. If you enjoy being beaten,slapped, chocked or who knows what next tell him to come do it some more. When he tells you he won't ever do it again he's hoping that you'll be stupid enough to believe him. Then he'll know that it's ok for him to keep doing it. I would consider him dead if i were you!

2007-02-18 03:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by mikey 3 · 2 0

First of all it was kind of rude of you to bring your problem into someone else's question. You might want to practice what you preach next time. Okay for your answer: Call the police, get a retraining order on him. You are pregnant for god's sake. What ever the problem is, you don't deserve to have him treat you this way especially while you are pregnant. It sounds like his parents are going to take his side. Have you tried getting in touch with your own parents? You really need some emotional support right now.

2007-02-18 08:45:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

OMG! It's not your fault at all. No one ever does anything to deserve that. And the fact that you are pregnant and they dropped you off in the city! They are friggin' assholes to say the least!!!

I would go to the police station and report this RIGHT AWAY!!!

You can email me if you want.

FaerieWhings@yahoo.com

2007-02-18 08:46:30 · answer #4 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 3 0

you did the right thing, you dont want to be in an abusive relationship, its not good for you or the baby, and as for his parents driving you out to the city, omg what they thinking, i hope youhave somewhere to go there, however hard it gets you have done the right thing, now concentrate on staying healthy so you can bring up your baby, and have a great life together....good luck flower hope all goes well whatever you do.....

2007-02-18 08:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

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