2007-02-17 18:09:28 · 30 answers · asked by kriti y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think u need 2 tell him 2 f get u...'coz both of u r going 2 bear da same pain...
2007-02-17 18:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by ssmart_chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I understand by your question, the way it is framed and words used there in , that you are of age abetween 12and 14.
The modern electonic media , movies , certain type of Magazines that are available and freedom given by parents(probably with a good intention) are some of the reasons for the children or students forgetting actually what they are for ....They are there to STUDY.If one fails to make good use of that Golden Era which builds their entire future..all the future will be not the same as they wanted...and any lamenting on the past will NEVER GIVE BACK that you have lost.
So people enerally mistake LUST for LOVE.Please understand that LOVE seeks the happiness of the person one is loving.If otherwise if it pains and bothers, then there is some thing wrong.The boy you refered may be not mature enough.and you both may be too( as you are saying that he loves you).If you think you are mature enough , then think that the boy is not mentally sound ,and advise him that he better see a counsellor.You will be laughing at your question now you posed after say 10 or 15 years hence.That is the effect of time.If he threatens to end his life by committing suicide ,he is highly possessive and immature.Bring the matter to the notice of his elders or police or the principal of institution.
First determine your priorities...read well....become SOMETHING great in some subject you like..Don't waste time bothering this type of ''LOVE''.
Please build or try to build a good future.Forget him.You have your own life,your own tases, your own likings and dislikings.You need not not think of high wods like ''sacrifice'' etc.My sicere advise is to forget all that happened and concentrate on your present studies..and come out wih flying colours.you can't get life twice.Anything lost is lost forever.Think yourself...calmly without emotions..you will definitely understand the meaning of life.Understand ''LIFE IS TOO LITTLE TO BE SMALL'' If you understand properly this last sentence, all your confusion will vanish.Wish you good luck and bright future.
2007-02-17 23:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by Radhakrishna( prrkrishna) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will not help this guy to give in to his need for you. He obviously is an extreme guy. He needs to learn to deal with regection and dont feel guilty about this. He is not a good choice for a relationship because he cant deal with his emotions without an abnormal reaction when he doesnt get his way. Move on to a nice guy. You cant save the world. He will use your sweetness to his own advantage. Good luck
2007-02-17 18:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by oceanqueen1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, go to your English teacher and find out how to write a proper sentence. Then simply explain to the boy you are not interested and he should move on. I'm guessing you are both about 12 years old. So, hey lots of time, lots of fish in the sea, nothing to worry about.
2007-02-17 18:15:57 · answer #4 · answered by Bonathon M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what is your age. but as i think you have sympathy with him . but you dont want a affair with that boy. ok? in this situation you can tell him that you are not thinking about marriage or love with anyone and you want to focus on your study and career. and you cannot spent time with anyone. so you cant get into love. if you able to linger the time he may not will be passionate for you like now. make him feel that you are not the right girl for him
2007-02-17 19:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by friend4all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such guys r selfish sadists who dare to do anything if u consider him.Love is where there is no reason - William Shakespeare. He tries to make u feel guilty that u don't understand his real feelings.Better u lodge a legal complaint on him for ur safe future.
2007-02-17 22:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by narmadha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call the school nurse or Child Protective Services and tell them a boy tried to kill himself.
2007-02-17 18:12:59 · answer #7 · answered by Irene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like him you don't have to be with him. Each person is responsible of their own happiness, if he really loved you he would not torture you with feelings of guilt or remorse. He's being selfish by wanting to have you when you don't want him. Is he expecting you to be miserable next to him so he can be happy? no, no, move on and what ever happens, don't look back.
2007-02-17 18:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by maccaroni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it isn't your problem, I mean he shouldn't beat himself all up just because you do not feel the same way about him as he does for you. Just try to live life normally and he will get over it, he may not be happy with you or your decision but don't let it mess up your weekend.
2007-02-17 18:11:56 · answer #9 · answered by nickhawkins21 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's really nothing you can do. You aren't responsible for his happiness. It's a fact of life that not everybody you like is going to like you back. Everybody experiences rejection from time to time in our lives but we have to learn to deal with it ourselves. He sounds like he's trying to push it off on you,
2007-02-17 18:17:17 · answer #10 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he comitted suside in front of u?just tell him that u don't like him and won't b happy with him,if he really loves u then he'll understand it.
2007-02-17 18:55:00 · answer #11 · answered by annie r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋