my girlfriend is 4 days late, and she had a small amount of bleeding 4 days ago, is it likely that she is preg

Question

we have not ever had sex... we have gotten close, but there has never been penetration..

Answer 1

YES, absolutely possible.

Even if she is a virgin, as someone incorrectly pointed out above, it is still possible.

It is absolutely possible for sperm to find their way inside - either on her hands or his hands, or on a tissue she may wipe herself with, or even by just landing near the entrance to her vagina and working their way inside via vaginal fluids - there are a number of way this could be entirely possible.

Basically, any type of intimate sexual contact could potentially result in pregnancy if the woman is fertile and sperm are present. Ths is why the withdrawal method is so unreliable - pulling out and coming on her stomach for example - as is doing everything except having actual intercourse, in the belief that pregnancy isn't possible. Plus, human nature being as it is, it takes an awful lot of self control to stop - you may find yourself wanting to go just that little bit further every time and before you know it, you'll actually be having unprotected intercourse.

Go to the pharmacy or supermarket and get a couple of home pregnancy tests as soon as you can. If they comes back positive then get her to a doctor as soon as you can.

If the first one comes back negative, wait 48 hours and test again. If it is still negative and her period is late then get your girlfriend to a doctor to have a blood test.

But if you even need to ask this question then you need to get better educated about sex - so while you are at the doctor get him or her to have a good talk to you and learn about your bodies, about pregnancy, about contraceptives, about diseases and HIV, and about the responsibilities, risks and consequences of having a sexual relationship.

Otherwise you could be celebrating your next fathes day first hand.

Answer 2

You two are probably stressed out. THat could cause her to be late, also did she just start/get off birth control? Theres many things that can cause her to be late. And since you two have gotten close then maybe chances are one in a million. Just relax, have her take a couple of pregnancy tests. Goodluck

Answer 3

If she is a virgin, she is not pregnant. Women's body's are all different, it could be anything really. If you are worried about it, then she can take a pregnancy test, but if you have never had sex, it's either someone elses' baby or she's not pregnant (if she hasn't had sex before either).

Answer 4

if your sperm never entered her vagina then she is not pregnant. But to avoid a scare like this in the future...always use protection. But you sound too young to be having sex anyways...if you didn't know about the sperm thing.