Although we stay faithful to our partner or spouse, do you sometimes feel that it will be great 'if' you could have a 'secret lover'?
2007-02-17 17:55:49 · 20 answers · asked by † Iríšh † 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thinking is one thing, doing it is another. yes, i do but in reality, everything comes with a consequence and so as having a secret lover....that's just life...sad right? reminds me of a recent movie by jude law...something called backdoor and front door or so. nothing comes with any sort of consequences and it was such man fantasy movie!
2007-02-17 18:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by xyz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If want a secret lover get a vibrator and don't tell him. You can always do some roll playing and have your hubby dress up and act like a character you like. I have been many different men to my wife.
2007-02-18 02:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by T-Rex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most people think about "what if's" or fantasies ect.. whether its with people they see on TV or in real life, i think its only a problem if u become obsessed with that fantasy or act upon it.. but i cant believe that anyone has gone their whole married life and cant say that for a moment someone of the opposite sex didnt cross their mind.. atleast not say it truthfully lol ..
2007-02-18 02:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking whether or not I sometimes fantasize about making love with someone other than my lawful wedded spouse, I'd have to say "H-e-l-l yes!"
2007-02-18 02:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by SA Writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that all married people think of things like this at some point in their marriage. Its human nature.....Its choosing or not choosing to act on the fantasy that makes the difference.
2007-02-18 02:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by RedHairedTempest 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How realistic is monogamy? Most people want that in a relationship, but from a psychological and sociological perspective, how realistic is it? I think that is where your question comes from. As old fashioned as I may be, i would say yes to your question.
2007-02-18 02:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO! What kind of partner/spouse are you? If you love your partner, you wouldn't have never thought about this. Don't you try. you'll hurt your partner and yourself. Peace!
2007-02-18 02:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont think its right to do so but, yes we always feel that we want someone else, the reason is we are not getting enogh love and affection from our partnener.
2007-02-18 02:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by sammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I'm way too jealous to have or be a secret love!
2007-02-18 02:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
act according to ur partner . if parner is having u also do it man kind some times need varieties
2007-02-18 02:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by gladwin44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋