We've been friends for over 4 years and since hes started dating this girl our friedship has been greatly jepordized. Everyone around them can see that they arent meant to be together or i wouldnt haev a problem with it. Shes changed him for the worst and I dont want to lose his friendship. Even after talking to him he doesnt see her for what she really is. How can i push them aprat without pushing him away?
2007-02-17 17:48:55 · 5 answers · asked by La La 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't know how long he's been seeing her, BUT, if more people than just you feel the same way, you should all confront him together...remember, love is blind, so it may take him awhile to catch on to the negative influence she has had on him...I don't think you should push too much though, he may see that as a jealousy thing...just tell him that you miss the times you used to spend together and suggest that you all set some time alone without her included...a guy thing, you know? For all you know, she may be trying to poison him against you as well...if you really can't stand the girl, just wait and see what happens, if you can tolerate her at all, attempt to spend time with the two of them, maybe if he sees that you are trying, things will change...
2007-02-17 17:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by kate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly this is form of obtainable. in case you start up relationship and it works out then there is not any reason she will't be your female buddy or maybe your spouse a million day and nevertheless be your maximum suitable buddy-offering you look after the friendship area of the relationship and don't turn it into some thing purely sexual. besides the undeniable fact that the undesirable information is that in case you do start up relationship and destroy up the possibilities are high the friendship would be destroyed too.at times human beings have the potential to stay stable pals with their ex besides the undeniable fact that this is totally uncommon.extra regularly the breakup of a romance leaves undesirable feeling on the two factors that makes actual friendship impossible. it relatively is a danger yet on the different hand do you think of you ought to handle staying basically pals together with her?Being basically pals with somebody you have romantic emotions for is annoying and basically gets extra durable as time passes.
2016-10-02 08:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by scoggin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything you do to push them apart will most likely end your friendship. Instead, simply be his friend. It is difficult, but eventually he will come around on his own. You can't change what he feels and pushing him will only worsen the situation. Give him some time. Do the things you normally would do with him. In the end, friendship will win.
2007-02-17 17:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by fly guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u can't if u try to break them up he'll just stand his ground on her harder.
but what u could try is bring the witch out in her around him more so he can see for himself but just remember this relation ships come and go but friends are forever if yor a true friend u would stand by him no matter what
2007-02-17 17:57:08 · answer #4 · answered by ryan s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you push him too hard he will get rid of you not her. Let him find out for himself. Just wait it out.
2007-02-17 18:00:46 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋